Okay i met this gurl about a week ago and exchanged phone numbers... we've been talking ever sinse and we made plans but didnt go as planned... well today i went out to lunch with her and things went great... but i like im ready to hook up but i think it needs more work... so she told me that she's free tommorowo and i might hang out with her but im not sure... but i want to see what would be the next step after this cuz this is no longer high school where u just hook up... :)
2006-09-19 16:20:52 · 11 answers · asked by Shaboobalaboopie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the next step I'm assuming you mean the NEXT LEVEL which to most guys means in the sack.......just because I'm assuming doesn't mean you should.....talk to the lady...........
2006-09-19 16:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, Im pretty sure you know more about this than I do, cause Im a loser, but heres some ideas:
I think her telling you shes free tomorrow means she's interested in hangin out with you. Dont know if its a sure thing, just suggests she wants to spend time with you.
Check out her body language, does she laff, does she play with her hair, touches you and or leans towards you when youre both talking?
I think the next step is to show her you want to go beyond the just friends thing, but dont push, tell her what you like of her, both physically and about the way she is. Be a gentleman, they love that and picks their interest. Just let her know you care.
Good luck!
2006-09-19 16:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Manuel L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not be ready to "hook up" just because you are. You shouldn't push it neither cause you might just mess up the whole thing. You need to wait untill she drops hints or shows signs of being ready, then make the move.
I hope I understood your question correctly and I hope this helped :) Have fun!!
2006-09-19 16:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by dabster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting to know a person is important, Maybe she is a virgin and plans on staying that way until marriage! If that's the case, do you cut and run? All people aren't in to making sex an amusement park!
2006-09-19 16:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well continue to met for lunch for maybe another few weeks and then progress into dinner and maybe then sleepovers and then you know what. Take it slow though don't rush into the intimacy too fast.
2006-09-19 16:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to talk about it....don't assume that a woman is just as ready for sex as you are. Respect her feelings and her opinion. Good Luck!!
2006-09-19 16:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never assume that a girl is ready just because you are. cuz you'll always be ready. If you're a guy.........with guy hormones. Ask her, she'll have more respect for you if you're open with her.
2006-09-19 16:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by rere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you just want to have sex to have sex, cause you're out of school. Please don't disrespect someone like that. One week is not long enogh to have sex with anyone. Have sex with someone because you really care about them, not because it's the thing to do, trust me , it will be so much more pleasureable. I truely mean this.
2006-09-19 16:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mate take things slow, like see if she would like a relationship first DOH!
2006-09-19 16:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you and her are pusing to make something happen to quickly, ley nature take its course.
2006-09-19 16:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Big D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋