I am 18, dont have a girlfriend, and people are making fun of me and making feel bad.
What should I do?
2006-09-19 16:20:47 · 35 answers · asked by yankee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, these people who are giving you a hard time are the losers. They have no life of their own to talk about so they have decided to make you the brunt of their jokes. Some of them possibly still have their virginity too they are just keeping their mouths shut and letting people assume tha tthey are not virgins anymore. Some people are good at being smooth liars about this subject. What you have is yours and you will lose it when and where you want to and with who you want to . You owe these real LOSERS no excuses, apologies or any information about your sex life or the nonexistence of it. If they continue to harass you about it there is protection out there for people who feel that they are being sexually harrassed and I would say you are. These people need toleave you alone and let you live your life. I hope this helps, people like tha tmake me really mad. Make sure when you have sex your doing it because you want to and feelready and USE PROTECTION. Waiting for the right one is always the best.
2006-09-19 16:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should cherish and respect your virginity, if it's your choice. Those who are making fun of you now won't find it so funny if they end up with an unwanted pregnancy or an STD. Your true friends won't make fun of you, and that's what matters most. Plus, when the right time comes, someone will feel so very special and honored that you gave them your virginity. You should keep on doing what you're doing. Stay strong and maintain your virginity. However, if you have any hangup about sex, talk to your parents, your clergyman, or seek counseling.
2006-09-19 16:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by tyrone n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um dude your 18 why the freak do you care what people say name calling is for 3rd graders and it shouldnt get under your skin if you care so much about what other think of you lose it to a slut if you actually have a reason for being a virgin and perhaps want a good experience with it wait till it happens with someone you care about and if you're so ashamed dont tell anyone only your performance will show if your a virgin or not no one else will be able to tell you need to grow up a bit and forget other people many people dont lose their virginity till college anyways believe it or not it'll happen when it happens go enjoy the other priveleges of being 18 hell go to a strip club ;)
2006-09-19 16:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by desireddisease15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't deal with it. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Why is it those other people's business that you are a virgin? They need to get a life and mind their own business. Sometimes the less you tell people, the better. One day the right woman will come along and you will lose your virginity. Meanwhile, let those idiots who are laughing at you worry about STDs.
2006-09-19 16:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by Werecatwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all I apploud you you are very respectible. I really wish I would have stayed a virgin till I was married and so does my husband so we could have shared that experience with each other I know for most females the first person they have sex with they allways have a place in their heart for now with guys I don't know if it is true or not. But that is something to keep with you and share with somone you love. Ignore all the others because one day they can be the ones with deseises and all that and you won't plus they are ususally the ones who are fathers quicker then anyone so ignore them and keep your head held high.
2006-09-19 16:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by lilblueyes8058 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up... Being a virgin is a personal choice!!! Try to not listen to anybody that makes fun of you because they are obviously just jealous!! Believe me, wait for that special someone and all of this will be well worth it i promise.. just ignore it or laugh it off and tell them at least i dont have to wake up everyday worrying if i have a STD or got some girl pregnant!!
2006-09-19 16:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Allie H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't "deal with it" be PROUD of it. Just because they couldn't keep it in their pants doesn't mean that u shouldn't either. you'll be the one coming out for the better in the end. you won't have to worry about STDs or getting someone pregnant and etc. I am 16 years old and get crap thrown at me becasue i'm a virgin as well. But to this day, i will PROUDLY say that i am a virgin and ppaln to be until marriage.
2006-09-19 16:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by ivegotquestions_uvegotanswers 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say good for you for being so strong! Sticking to what you believe in is very hard for young people these days. Don't worry about what other people say. Besides, when you do meet the right girl, it will be all the more special. Also, the people that are making fun of you are just trying to take away from their own insecurities. *hugs
2006-09-19 16:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by nikki_butterfly777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you attend a public school, the ratio of guys to girls is usually somewhere around 50/50. That means there is definatly a girl for you. And if you're just looking for sex, that's easily achievable in high school, because everyone is usually inexperienced/confused and if you show you want it, you will get it. However you didn't mention what you really want. How to deal with it? Don't worry about it because sex isn't your life. Worry about school, family, and friends.
2006-09-19 16:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by Special J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If anything you should be proud. I mean I'm only 16 and a virgin but I'm soo proud of it. I guess its different though cause your a guy but I mean you are like 1 in 100 or more people. I don't know I like thinking of it like that. Your special and what are they? They are people who've wasted a good gift thats suppose to be for your husband/wife. I mean Its the best gift you could give them. Just be proud that you are and they won't give you crap!
2006-09-19 16:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋