no she wants to be "friends" but it will never be the same since you cant jusr break up and be friends after 5 months. please help me
2006-09-19 16:17:52 · 20 answers · asked by chqusy_boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe that when you are in a relationship your partner IS your best friend and so the fact that she values the word of her friend over you, you obviously don't mean that much to her at all. If i were you, i know it is hard but just let her go. Don't be friends but just tell her that its too hard to be friends because she is probably looking to still have you in her life meanwhile she can be with other people. So at least if you tell her its not going to happen she might wake up to herself!
2006-09-19 16:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um OK that's a little childish. If she will break up with you because someone else said that you lied about something, then she obviously didn't want the relationship like she should've. Honey i think you can find someone better who will handle things like that, in a more mature way.
2006-09-19 23:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally immature. her best friend obviously is just trying to find reasons for her to break up with you. If she just believes her best friend over you and doesn't even investigate or ask you....she doesn't trust you and you can find more of a woman than that any day. Go find the woman you deserve! Good Luck!! :)
2006-09-19 23:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove that you are not lying. Whta proof do you have? If you know you are then just move on and lie to someone else don't hurt her feelings anymore. and be thankful she is at least agreeing to be friends with you and didn't cut you off all the way..
2006-09-19 23:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you lie? Did you and your ex gf speak about it? I know 5 months seems like a long time, but I was married for seven years and am friends with my ex hubby, with my BF after him for almost three years and am friends with him now, and he cheated on me with three other girls and had one of them in OUR apartment.
2006-09-19 23:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by sheree12675 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its true that you lied about something than you need to humble yourself and say that you messed up, and your sorry and you'll never mislead her again. if her best friend is lying and you never lied about something. than leave her because she is just making an excuse to get rid of you.
2006-09-19 23:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw her dont let her get to you...She is just waiting for an excuse to leave sounds like to me...Her friend must be jealus of her or you... Dont let her see you hurt...Act like she is in the wrong (which she is) and move on or act like you are moving on..
2006-09-19 23:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then forget being friends and move on.
2006-09-19 23:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like what i just did.. though it was his friend that lied. i feel like crap and would do anything to take it back and change it. he wont even talk to me now and i dont blame him...
2006-09-19 23:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her true colors have shown thru...... she chose to believe another..... so learn from it and let it go and move on.... about being friends with her ? that is something YOU will have to search your heart for and answer urself..... God bless
2006-09-19 23:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋