I dated my boyfriend for four months. One day he stopped calling me. He is not answering my phones calls. Should I expect an explanation from him or should I just let it go?
2006-09-19 16:03:32 · 20 answers · asked by Niki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I wish that everyone was mature enough to be honest with others. It sounds to me that this guy is not very mature and not very nice. A nice guy would have at least gave you an explanation. When your dating someone, watch them closely, The way they are now will give you an idea of the way they will be all their lives. Do you really want to spend your life with someone that don't respect you enough to talk to you and be honest with you? The sad thing is, you can't make someone explain even if they should. Just forget about this guy and move on with your life. At least you only dated him for four months and not four years. It could have been a lot worse. Good luck honey, and be true to yourself.
2006-09-19 16:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by dwanalyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I understand. Of course you want to know why -anyone would- and you deserve the truth. But, the fact of the matter is....he is too immature and can't be honest. Just let him go, you deserve someone who will treat you with respect!!!
2006-09-19 23:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by glitzngal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that when you finally get a hold of him, just kindly ask him what was going on and if everything was alright. (don't say "Hey, you, what's the big idea!?!?!?"). Just ask him why; I'm sure that if he's understanding, he wouldn't mind answering. But try to keep in contact with him and make contact with him, and also try to use more than one way (email, instant message, cell, etc.)
2006-09-19 23:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Display Name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should give you an explanation. It sounds as if he is avoiding you now so you prolly won't get the explanation you deserve.
2006-09-19 23:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expect an explanation, it's your right, even if it's a lie, he should tell u what he's been up to for a long time
2006-09-19 23:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by BK4EvEr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Just be careful in the future, too of who you decide to go out with.
2006-09-19 23:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by curly98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to know the truth. Ask him why he did not return your calls. Give the opportunity to explain what happen.
2006-09-19 23:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jack Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go for now..
if he wants to talk let him call you!
2006-09-19 23:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not answering your calls and doesn't call anymore that SHOULD be enough of a hint. Get a clue.
2006-09-19 23:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go
2006-09-19 23:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋