can you tame the player? is it just a matter of finding the right person?
2006-09-19 15:57:38 · 13 answers · asked by ang268 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think some guys are too focused on what they don't have, or what they're missing out on, when in a relationship to enjoy what they do have. So, for some guys, even the perfect girl for him might not be enough for him to change the way he lives his life. There are a lot of people out there that feel this need to 'get it out of their system' before they settle down.
2006-09-19 16:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dad is a player, married for 17 yrs but always playing women...he's 61 now and is STILL a player..he's met many wonderful women but it was never "right".
Are you the player or the playee ?
2006-09-19 23:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't tame a player, they only slow down with age.
2006-09-19 22:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he's ready and ONLY if he's ready. You can be the perfect girl, but if he's a dog, ain't no remedy for that. He'll settle down when he grows up, when he feels it's time. Don't think you can change anyone, it's damn near impossible. Trust me, I know from experience. Hope that helped answer your question.
2006-09-19 23:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes, usually the player longs to settle down but they usually go for the no-nonsense biatch who will put them in their place.
2006-09-19 23:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can certainly try. but personally, i think if you're trying to tame a "player" you're just setting yourself up for disappointment.
Thats not to say it can't happen... but i wouldn't count on it too much. its just about luck and timing... or catching him at a particularly vulnerable moment.
2006-09-19 23:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Easygreasy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol I thought I had but I got dumped because they thought I hadnt... no matter what ill always love her and I aint no player... never was and never will b
2006-09-19 23:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by FoB_NoZ_hIs_S*** 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe that they can. I find that it is a lifestyle that is is hard to break for them, They take advantage of the freedom they incur by moving from one person to the next, using them up and finding someone else to eat up and spit out. Hope your relationship is not like that.........
2006-09-19 23:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by silhouette 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's all the matter of finding the right person.
2006-09-19 22:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Yes, It has to be a person who will not take crap from nobody, a secure kick a $$ bit ch who knows what she wants, where she wants and how she wants it.
2006-09-19 23:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋