I met this guy in a bar, ive known him for years but just met up again, and we hit it off. We ended up kissing at the end of the night and hes been calling me ever since. Well, that was about three weeks ago and he finally came and stayed with me this past weekend and i did not sleep with him.. He is a very attractive guy and i want to keep him interested, cause i like him alot he is very sweet! But alot of girls want him and i know it.. Any suggestions on how to keep him?
2006-09-19 15:55:28 · 9 answers · asked by Allie H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has been calling you ever since and he stayed with you the past weeked but you did not shag him....
well, you might be giving him mixed messages. My advice is to call him and have a great night together full of hard core sex.
trust me, any guy wants his girl to be naughty but also innocent in the general public. so go for it, have a good time
2006-09-19 16:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is be yourself. Either he will like who you are, or he won't. Don't pretend to be someone else just to hold his attention. Eventually he would see through the act, and then be hurt because you're not who he thought you were. He will see it as a lie, and no one likes to be lied to. DON'T sleep with him just to hold onto him. If all he wants is sex you might want to step back and take another look at the situation. Hope everything works out.
2006-09-19 23:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by swtstuf2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't keep someone interested in you. You behave responsibly toward him and he either wants you or he doesn't. I say dump him. It sounds like he doesn't value good relationships if he's staying with you at night and you needed to meet up again. Wait till you and a guy both value each other.
2006-09-19 23:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Nothing you can 'do' will make him stay, though you can prolong him leaving. Let him get a chance to know you and vice versa. By being yourself I do not mean you cannot find out what he is interested in, and see if you cannot form an honest enjoyment of his hobbies, but if you hate football and he loves it, it would be plain stupid to pretend you like it. Be genuine. If he doesn't like you for who you are, nothing will work, in the long run. What do people in general like? They like sombody who likes themself and has a good healthy ego. They do not like people that make them feel guilty all the time. They like people that are interested in them and those around them. Good luck!
2006-09-19 23:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by honorbright24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Allie H,
You want to keep him interested, then a wet, sloppy BJ will keep him calling. Best of luck to you.
--Rick
2006-09-19 23:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him and you like to try and start dating you know alot of girls like him but you want to know how he feels about you
2006-09-19 23:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Taz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure he knows that you like him,that should be enough.
2006-09-19 22:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself or always be naked
2006-09-19 22:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with him already!
2006-09-19 22:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by joalteeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋