the girl that i LOVE is goting out with one of my frinds her IM says "i have a man the still wants to hold me and still wants to kiss me even whin his with his frind im so glad that my man is johny" every time i IM her and c that my hart herts i would do anything to make her happy and im glad that she is happy and she knows iv liked her for 3 years now. what do i do i cant eat i cant sleep i cant even breath what do i do i need to find away to make myself happy. HELP PLEASSSSS anyone
2006-09-19 15:54:27 · 8 answers · asked by tosexy_formy_shirt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Step up to the plate and play ball. Nice guys finish dead last.
2006-09-19 15:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by stopbuyingoil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she is playing games with you. Who on Earth would put that as their IM? I mean it is really ridiculous! She is trying to make you hurt. Now she could be doing this for 2 reasons. 1st, she really has moved on and just wants to pound your face into the pavement (which stinks) or she is doing it to try to make you jealous (which is what I think is more likely. You need to do something sweet and romantic (probably a bit hokey, but girls like that kind of stuff) and express to her how you feel. Your goal is to get her to melt. It is all you can do. If it doesn't work, you need to move on.
2006-09-19 23:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by ineedalotofyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you have very strong feeling for his girlfriend and tell her how you feel about her. It could change everything and mabe she is feeling the same way about you. You never know tell you tell her. Some girls like a man that can take charge. This is not something you should do over the computer, you should tell her face to face.
2006-09-19 23:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act as if. act as if you dont care and swee other people. you will become more desirable because you will not be available. she is blind to you now anyways, but not available is better. and if she doenst come around, you are still seeing others (even if your heart isnt in it), and you might find someone else as good.
as for the no sleep and no eating etc. STOP thinking of her. it will still hurt, but you thinking about it more will add extra chemicals in your brain that make you sad. you will get thought this...just keep sludging forrfard and bide your time. statistically they not last. good luck bro.
2006-09-19 23:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by duckfuzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man its okay it happend to me once but there are a lot of ways to tell her You can IM her and tell her the truth that you love her(without your friend watching you) or talk to her face to face. If she says YES congratulations but if she says NO ho well that's how life is forget her i know its hard but just try and think a 2 girl that you may like and tell her the same. I hope i helped!! Thanks!!
2006-09-19 23:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by abdiand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there, no matter what happens you will get past this and your life will go on. Trust me, the best thing you can do is not smother her, let her come back to you. If you call her over and over she will get turned off
2006-09-19 22:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by dunknasty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, she's just not into you.........doesn't sound like it's gonna change. Look for something else you'd like to get to know. Other prospects is the best therapy.
2006-09-19 22:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by rere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the deep feelings
or move on
women are like buses, theres always a new one in 5 minutes
2006-09-19 22:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋