ok i have a cosin 9 months yonger than me. i always have done everything in my power to get her to like me it dosent work. then my family tells me that shi just hates me but i know i have never done anithing to her shis my blood and i told her hundreds of time that blood is thicker than water but i just dont know what to do. why dose shi hate me what should i do?
2006-09-19 15:49:15 · 11 answers · asked by me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to put more effort into the manner in which you ask your questions.
If you want people to concentrate on helping you to solve your problem, it is better for them to focus on your problem… rather than on your many spelling mistakes!
Grab a ‘dictionary’ and put it to good use.
I have rewritten your question in order to help me to understand it better…
Why is my cousin so hateful?
OK… I have a cousin who is 9 months younger than I am.
I have always done everything in my power to get her to like me, but it doesn’t work.
My family and friends tell me that she just hates me, but I know I have never done anything to her.
She is my blood, and I told her hundreds of times that ‘blood is thicker than water’.
I just don’t know what to do.
Why does she hate me?… What should I do?
How old are you and your cousin?
How long has she been so hateful toward you?
If your family and friends are telling you that she hates you…
Ask them if they know of any reason why she should.
Stop telling her that ‘blood is thicker than water’…
and stop trying to do things to get her to like you.
Be yourself… Allow her to be herself…
Try to not give her any reason to hate you, and in time she will be asking herself why she hates you, and will eventually change her attitude toward you.
Be polite enough to say ‘hello’ to her when you see her, then let it go at that.
If you try to push her to like you, she will only learn to hate you more !!!
2006-09-19 15:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you learned how to spell first things would be better what is a cosine sow? A sow here in the states is a female pig...as for cosine? I don't know what that is unless you are trying to spell COUSIN, in that case of course your COUSIN dosen't, (notice the apostrophe between the N and the T), like you if you're calling her a female pig, I don't know too many females who like to be called that. Now let's see, what the hick is a shis? Or are you attempting to abbreviate SHE IS? That would be She's, (again the apostrophe), and last but not least it is DOES not DOSE, dose is a measurement of medication.
2006-09-19 22:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be jealous of you. It sounds like you have had a heart to heart with her and she still has this hate for you, so you have done all you can do. I would suggest that remain polite, but don't subject your self to emotional abuse. That is just what she is doing to you. You put the ball in her court. She owns that hate, not you. You have done your part. I know it is hard because she is your family, but you can't let anyone treat you like that. She will have to answer for her own actions.
2006-09-19 23:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by missyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth are you trying so hard for her to like you? Does it really matter? Yes, blood is thicker than water, but do you honestly want someone hanging around that treats you so badly? Sweetie, there is a saying....You can't pick your relatives, but you can pick your friends. Honey, surround yourself with people who truly care about you because they want to, not because they are forced to. You'll be much happier.
2006-09-19 22:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just jealous of you. If you've never done anything to make her hate you, maybe she's just a hateful person. Some people are like that -- they don't like anyone, even themselves. My advice would be to quit trying so hard to make her like you. Leave her alone. Why is it so important to you that she likes you? Don't you have friends you can hang out with? One other thing, dear -- please learn how to spell.
2006-09-19 22:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got news for you, Blood is not that thick. In fact family sometimes hurts you more than your friends. move on and find a friend. I know , I have an ex sister.
2006-09-19 23:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done all you can. If she still feels the way she does towards you, then don't waste your time trying to mend something that you didn't break.
Life is too short to worry about 1 person.
2006-09-19 22:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave that ***** the **** alone!! sometimes its good that your family isnt around i let my cousin live with me and my boyfriend and she started telling half the family that i better watch my man because shes goiong to take him and she told the other half tha she had sex with him when they were never ever alone in the house so just cut your loses and move on with your life
2006-09-19 22:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur cosine is hateful because u reciprocted his sine. Just kidding kick her *** and forget about her
2006-09-19 22:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam I the only one that has spell check?
2006-09-19 22:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋