I have known this girl for approx. six months, and she is an accounting auditor. She came to my company auditing for two weeks. One of the finance ladies in the company kept on advertising me to her. Two finance ladies, her and I went to lunch together one day. It was so messed up because we ate for 30 mins, and the two finance ladies tried to play the leave early and leave us both alone trick. It didn't work, so we all left. The next week, I asked the girl to lunch alone, but she rejected because she promised her co-workers to go to lunch with them. Whether it was true or not, I had no clue. The finance lady spoke with her, and she said she just wanted to be friends and didnt want to lead me to anything. Well, I got screwed since beginning. I started talking with her online and went to a club that she asked me to go. I saw her that night and spoke with her for awhile. Next day, I chatted with her a little online. Um.. I'm wondering if I should ask her to go to lunch again.
2006-09-19 15:25:01 · 11 answers · asked by itguru5354 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a chance to ask for her phone number in the club, but I missed it. We only chat online and via email. I'm trying to be friends with her and get to know her more. I don't want her to think that I want to date her or etc. I know she is currently single.
2006-09-19 15:27:02 · update #1
NOPE....never ask more than once. She knows your interested, the ball is in her court now. And to be honest, if she was really intersted she would have went with you the first time and made it up to her co-worker later.
2006-09-19 15:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ventured, nothing gained, goes the old saying. You can ask her to lunch again, but don't be too upset if she turns you down. Apparently, she just wants to be friends -- nothing more, at least at this time. So you might want to give her a little shove, but don't push too hard. In time, she may realize what a great guy you are, and change her mind. Let's hope that happens, but for now, just play it cool and honor her request to remain friends. No harm in two friends having lunch together, by the way.....Good luck!
2006-09-19 15:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 04:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would never hurt to try again. What is the worst that can happen, that she would say no. Well that wouldn't be bad. Maybe she doesn't want everyone at work to know her business. Talk to her about it on line, via email. Maybe she will give you a few more clues.
2006-09-19 15:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by luv him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na.. leave her alone, sounds to me like she's using you for backup. That's what I use to do. You are a way for her to "fill in the blank". Sorry, but you should try not answering your her emails and try not talking about her to anyone. It might work, because women always want what they can't have.
2006-09-19 15:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try, but be prepared because she might only want to be friends.
2006-09-19 15:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, give it another try. Good luck.
2006-09-19 15:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Still a Sexy Momma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dinner. It's more romantic, besides...
2006-09-19 15:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by keith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't.
2006-09-19 15:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't hurt to ask. Do it.
2006-09-19 15:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by sheree12675 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋