i'm, a christian and i know that in the bible it says its wrong. but i dont know if i am or not. i was kinda attracted to one on my bi friends bu now i kinda like her as more of a friend. is there a way to tell if i am? I like guys i know, but i only like that one girl. so am i bi?
2006-09-19 15:18:42 · 5 answers · asked by British lover 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I don't think so. Maybe u just really like to spend time with that person. Or maybe it's admiration...Give it some time, maybe it will pass. If u were bi, I think u would be attracted to other girls as well.
2006-09-19 15:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by lizizle101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Christian too, and so I know it's hard to talk about things like this. First of all, I do believe that bisexuality is wrong. Second of all, it's more common than you think for people to be attracted to members of the same sex. It's not such a big deal. People are beautiful, both men and women, some more than others. If one of my friends tells me she can't appreciate and enjoy looking at a beautiful woman just as much as a beautiful man, I usually don't believe her.
Having said that, I don't think you're bisexual. This girl that you are attracted to may be very beautiful, she may be very sensual, and she is probably a really great friend. That doesn't mean you have to have sex with her. If you want to be intimate with her, that is your choice obviously, but my point is that sexual attraction and arousal is so much more than a guy or a girl or homesexual, heterosexual, bisexual, et cetera, especially for women.
Women become aroused by what they hear more so than what they see, so that makes me think you are attracted to this friend because she's a great person. She will always be a great person, whether you sleep with her or not. Please make good choices for yourself and for the other people in your life, and pray for God's help in everything you do.
2006-09-19 22:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was study made, and most people admitted feeling sexual for the same sex. it is natural, but dont give in. to it, hug dance touch , hold hands whatever, but dont do it, you will probubly regret it if you do, but god only knows . pray about it and listen to that quiet voice within you. that will answer any question you have,when in dought, dont.
2006-09-19 22:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my darling in what way do you view this friend?is it as someone you would want to be sexually involve with,or just someone you see as a great friend ?meaning a person you could talk to about any thing.
2006-09-19 22:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you acted on it, then yes. I personally believe that all girls at least "fantasize" about another girl. Just depends on if you physically act out.
2006-09-19 22:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋