Its been 5 months now, My friend Died coming back from the Prom, he was only 18, about a month after that, one of my teachers died, another month later, my family decided that it was time to move, I am 16 and a half now, I lived in my home town for 16 years, and I knew not anything else, this town is just as big, and things in my life are better, I have even found love here, yet I find myself coming home, even from an extremely good day where I found no hardships, and break down sobbing madly, I can't find any real joy in my life, even god has forsaken me. I can't find it in me to feel anything but grief, what is wrong with me
2006-09-19 15:09:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I believe that it's time for you to go to your parents and tell them how badly you feel. You have had several significant losses of important people in your life and then you left everything you've ever known and moved to a strange place. Even though that has worked out well for you, that is a stressor, too. When you have lost all the joy in your life, feel abandoned (even by God) and feel uncontrollably sad, you need some professional help. If it's too scary for you to tell your parents first, go and talk to the school counselor. You need the help - now go and get it! Good luck!
2006-09-19 15:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by KathieJo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You're just grieveing which is natural and human and you shouldn't be ashamed. With two tramatic events happening back to back it's not uncommon to grieve for a year. Eventually you will move on. God has not forsaken you, believe it or not. In the King James version of the bible read John 14:18 It says that you are never alone because he is with you and another thing to remember is what you are going through now, you can handle because God never gives us more than we can handle. Sorry to sound so churchy but that's what I've been taught in all my sunday school classes. If you think something is wrong try seeing a therapist or a counselor a while just so you can talk and get things out. You need to quit living in the past, and what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. email me if you want to talk more. I'm a great listener and I know what it's like to feel alone.
kayla
2006-09-19 22:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by lylitalianbeauty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After my father died suddenly, I felt like it was the end of the world. I tried dealing with it for 6 months until I finally lost it on a stranger for no reason (my way of dealing was to get very angry all the time). I went to therapy, got some meds, and things are still difficult at times but I am finally happy.
It really seems like you are depressed. There isn't anything wrong with that - you either need to talk to your parents, or someone at your school if you don't want your parents to know.
2006-09-19 22:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by m c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your family about this. Even though you may not be able to convey all of your feelings you should at least let them know how you feel about things. Also try calling up an old friend back home and let them know how you feel. Who knows they maybe able to help. I'm sorry to hear about what has gone on in your life but talking (for me at leasts) help get things off the chest. Good luck with everything and I hope things work out for the best.
2006-09-19 22:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by L.M.L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I learned alot about dealing with grief last year when I lost 3 family members in 2 months. Sometimes you have to seek professional help. Death is a horrible thing to deal with. Best of luck.
2006-09-19 23:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to feel emptiness in your heart when love ones passes away unexpectedly. When my mom died then my oldest brother a year later, I felt crashed. It took me years to recover but was able to understand. I pray for prayers are food for the soul.
There's nothing wrong with you, your just being you. One last thing, God has not forsaken you, he never will.
2006-09-19 22:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun its completely natural the way your feeling. Losing the most important things, leave you feeling completely empty. I can relate a bit. You need someone to talk to. Thats exactly what you need. Coming home crying- Instead you need to come home and talk to someone. You said you found love? Try and talk to them about thing. It might sound so lame, But talking really is the best thing for you. Getting it out of your chest. And Don't say god has forsaken you. It isn't true. Believing things like that, that you cannot be certain about make things alot worse. You can email me if you'd like to talk to me. =] I'd love to talk to you about stuff if you need it.
2006-09-19 22:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by robotsx3mebetter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometime people can get stuck in a depression, may need to see a dr about getting on an antidepressant even if for a little while to get you over this hump.
Sorry about your loss.
2006-09-19 22:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by denise f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try griefhealing.com. try venting it out. use muisc or poetry to help you deal with it.
2006-09-19 23:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋