friends, and he doesnt call them jkust to tlak, theres always a reason but it seems that he always has certain girls.. i know he loves me very much and we;re happy... but dont know what i should think of this!
2006-09-19 15:01:59 · 9 answers · asked by Kat* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Back in the day when I was a single guy, I can honestly say I did not call girls to chit chat that I did not want to have sex with.
2006-09-19 15:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by dudeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about respect and am wondering why are you feeling the need to say its ok because he loves you? If he really truly loved you and respect you as his g/f. Getting calls from another woman would never be an issue because your his, your in his heart, soul, and mind.
I think you need to sit down and look out the window in your life and ask yourself is this how I want this man to treat me everyday, month, year? Like your second?
He can always change his digits? He can always pick up the phone and tell them in front of you. I have g/f and out of respect I would like you to stop calling.
Sit down and find a solution about what bothers you and way and how can you work theses issues out
2006-09-19 22:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want a bf who kept in touch with X girlfriends. It is playing with fire. Some call it emotional affairs. There is a fine line here. If you two were in public and you bumped in to the X gf and you all talked, that is ok. But, to take a call regularly or make the calls...........this guy just might not be ready to have a serious relationship.
Sounds like the two of you need to define your relationship.
If he feels the strong need to call other women, then you aren't number one in his life. If you are comfortable with this fine. But, it sounds like you are not comfortable.
Lay down some boundries hon....
2006-09-19 22:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly in love with him, you two probably have no secrets from each other (or shouldn't). My girlfriends didnt mind me talking to other girls because of our high levels of trust.....just trust the guy
2006-09-19 22:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be really happy with someone you don't trust completely? Maybe it's time to reevaluate the relationship/situation.
2006-09-19 22:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Karen W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust his word. If you don't have trust in a realtionship you'll probably end up broken up very soon.
2006-09-19 22:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you trust him don't sweat it,but if your not sure maybe you should get to know a few of these girls to test out how good of "friends"they are.
2006-09-19 22:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by kookoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bf is keeping in touch in case he gets tired of you.
2006-09-19 22:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey trust him. just because he has girls that he calls donsnt mean that he is cheating on you. i have alot of girls numbers on my cell phone and my gf knows that i wont cheat on her
2006-09-19 22:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by cterp123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋