I am 19, and I only date guys in their mid 20s to late 30s,because they are usually more mature, but they mostly want sex,is it just the age difference or are all guys like this regardless of age?
2006-09-19 14:58:09 · 10 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, im gonna give you the straightest most blunt answer any one will give you. U r 19 and probaly fairly attractive. When u get up to older men like that most of them r thinking that they r gonna et them a little young hot piece of ***. Now this is not every case. Where r u meeting theses guys at? Clubs? Bars? If this is the case then u probaly wont be meeting any guys for a long term realtionship anyway. 98 percent of guys who r single out at the bar or club are looking to get some. There not looking for a wife or a gf. Most guys while quick to have sex with women do not want a relationship with someone they met in the club. Also evaluate the way you look to. U might be sending out sub concious signals saying that u r there for sex, when ur not. You atitude says even more. Also dont give in to pressure for sex thinkin that that will draw somebody closer to you, because they will hae gotten theres and move out and u will be the one hurtin! Hold out, make them wait. Develop a set of rules for ur self and hold strong to them. Tha way you have a good chance to get to know the guy and can tell if u r going anywhere with him. One night stands are that in itself one night, so dont do it! Its all about u, ur vibe. I hope u do meet a nice guy who will treat you with respect though and treat u the way you deserve to be treated. I hope you find what u r looking for
2006-09-19 15:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by asdfghjkl1234567890 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind you're only 19 and dating guys 10 sometimes 15 years older than you. My guess is they don't respect your personality and you should probably date guys closer to your own age.
2006-09-19 22:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by adamafterfive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the ultimate "proof" that you want to stay. The fact that guys want to have sex with you shouldn't even bother you. By the mere fact that you complain that older guys want to have sex with you implies that you believe sex is evil and "nothing more." I am hoping you don't actually believe that. Men want sex, ipso facto, no ifs ands or buts. If you don't give it up often enough (at least in a commited relationship) you will find yourself alone again. It is VERY unlikely that you are going to find a man who only wants to have sex every 2 months. GIVE IT UP OR YOU WILL LOOSE HIM! Don't try to argue with that logic. If you don't have sex with him as often as HE wants it, he WILL (I stress "will", not "maybe", or "should", or "sorta") find someone else that will. Give him a reason to stay or he will leave.
2006-09-19 22:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by maledude2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats jsut the guys that you are dating my boyfriend is 35 and i am 24 and he is the love of my life and vice versa of course every man wants to have sex, lots of sex , but **** so do i but if they are not respecting you then you need to move on and if this is a constant thing then maybe its you not them you may be putting out a vibe thath tells them you only want sex your not looking for a relationship you need to go back and re evgaluate what it is that you are putting put there. but trust noot all man only want you for sex because weve been together for six years and still going strong
2006-09-19 22:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if you are dating a guy in his 30's and you are only 19 he's not in it for your mind....but most guys do want sex. A younger guy will probably want even more sex 'cause he's got more energy..........
2006-09-19 22:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sad but true...accept it. The good guys are far and few between, the rest, especially at this age, are just typical guys.
2006-09-19 22:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Ed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No all guys aren't like that. Here's a web site you might read: http://www.boundless.org/2002_2003/departments/beyond_buddies/a0000796.html
Develop standards for guys you date and insist that they meet them, go slowly in developing relationships and look very hard for deal breakers.
2006-09-19 22:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy wants sex all the time my mom told me that and my boyfriend wants it all the time
2006-09-19 22:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by supermodel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope your dating losers and users
2006-09-19 22:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and yes.
2006-09-19 22:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋