Im 19, and since I have been 15 I have been dating guys in their late 20s and early 30s, but sadly all they have wanted was sex, do I date guys so much older because my own dad walked out on me when I was a little girl
2006-09-19 14:48:23 · 8 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't like labels.Why are you dating men so much older than you? What do ypu have in common with them? You may be looking for the maturity they have but most of the time it won't work out . You don't have the maturity a man of 30 would be looking for . Sad to say but some men prey on younger girls as you have found . Don't allow yourself to be anyones sex toy. I am sorry yuor Dad left. It probably wasn't you he left though. fear of or lack of responsibility is more likely why he walked out
2006-09-19 15:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe that is exactly what you have and is probably the last thing you should be doing, not because of the age difference, but because as you said these guys only want you for sex. Learn from this and try dating either some guys your own age. If you still feel that you are just only attracted to older men, then dont give into sex so easily. Holding off for a couple of monhs could really lead to something very special.
2006-09-19 21:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may.. if you feel you do then you do. I think you need to over come that. Did you really date old 20's when you were 15, that is kind of sad. That really is bad when I think about it. I think you need to date people your age. They will have a lot more in common and they will also not want sex on the first date because they are kind of scared to ask. So stop with the old men and go with people your age. It will be best for you.
2006-09-19 21:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel alot comfortable with older guys. Maybe because you are more mature than the boys your age, you feel more better with an older guy.
Do u think that is kind of wierd to have attraction to older guy? I think age should not really matter.
2006-09-19 21:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by de_dark_angel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think if you had a complex, you would date men much older than that. A lot of women are attracted to older more mature men.
2006-09-19 21:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe so, It's ok to date someone older, but it don't need to be a figure of you dad!!!!!
2006-09-19 21:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by hippiechic35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good guess. I suggest talking to a therapist or counselor about this. This issue may be deeper than you think.
2006-09-19 21:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You date older guys because you are a slut. It's ok, embrace your trampiness.
2006-09-19 21:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by RyeBerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋