there this guy im crushing on for about a month now but im moving to edmonton in like 2 weeks ...he knows i like him and i think he likes me too since he stares at me alot and when i catch him staring he looks away realli qiuck and starts blushing but i dunt know if a should make a move before i move or should i just forget about it? i really really like this guy and i think he's great and funnny and sweet and has a nice personality but i really don't know what i should do?
2006-09-19 14:19:07 · 13 answers · asked by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be yourself. That is the most important part. Times have changed and it is okay to go after a guy yourself. So if you see a guy you really like, why not ask him out. It really is okay to do it that way now. So do not be shy, just get yourself a boy friend and it will get easier for the next time you need to find yourself one.
2006-09-19 14:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are or how far away you are moving, but if you really like him, then try to strike up a conversation with him. The very worst thing that could happen is that he doesn't end up liking you as a girlfriend, but so what? You'll be miles away, and you won't have to risk running into him and it being awkward. The best thing that could happen is that he will like you back,and it might be a lifelong friendship (or more). You can keep in touch with him on the computer, phone, or (GASP) even write letters back and forth.
GO FOR IT!!
2006-09-19 21:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to wonder how far away are you moving? If it is a vast distance, I 'm not sure I would say anything. Especially if you two are not driving yet and are still in school. Long distance relationships are very difficult. A friend of mine just told me that the guy she was seeing(many states away) was cheating on her. For two years. How would you ever know? It is very hard to know and is a real heart break when you find out. Whatever you choose to do, be safe, and I wish you the best of luck!
2006-09-19 21:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means you should make a move. If you don't who will? Even if you do do the wrong thing by making a move, he'll only be there for two weeks right? Also, if you like and he's a guy, he'll definitely talk to you, and he'll probably buy what you're selling.
2006-09-19 21:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id tell him that i wanna hang out sometime... and tell him that you like him and would like to have a good memory before you move away and never see him or talk to him again. So try to get a date with him and get his phone number and stuff . That way you wont regret it for the rest of your life so give it a try tell him you like him and wanna hang out just to see what happens. If it turns out he dosent like you or somthing just forget it i meanif you get embaressed your already moving. Well I think this will work just do it! I know you can well back to the old saying "you can do it if you set your mind to it"!
2006-09-19 21:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by mychemicalmary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a sweet friend-ship type card from Hallmark (or similar) with a quick note that you'd like to be friends and that you are moving soon. If he wants to be friends to write you at ........and put in your new address or phone number. Leave it up to him.
If he has any interest, he will be flattered and will get back in touch with you. Be patient, but NOT pushy.
Good Luck!
2006-09-19 21:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your moving...there is less hope for a relationship. On the other hand, moving takes that pressure off ...so it couldn't hurt to make a move
2006-09-19 21:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by L.lion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him of course and since you are moving, exchange address so you guys can stay in touch.
2006-09-19 21:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead make a move it happened to me once and it worked graett
2006-09-19 21:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.Bagel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him!!! see if he really does like you and if he does explain your situation and then give him an option.
2006-09-19 21:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋