An ex has currently uncovered that he "loves me". I'm a senior and we've messed around since 6th grade but since freshman year we haven't officially been a couple. He came up and told me he loved me and then two nights after that he called and told me he wanted a physical relationship first and then work on emotional. After we had the conversation, he admitted to me that he was stoned that night and whatever he had said was a lie. What do I tell him?
2006-09-19 14:00:27 · 12 answers · asked by Miranda M. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that when you were with him, you werent yourself and now you have came a long way and grown up so much and learned so much. You want to push him aside and move on.
Think about this, this guy doesnt love you, he doesnt even know what love is. He just wants someone to sleep with and he knows you are going to be there if he needs that. Show him NO your not someones door matt that they can just walk on anytime they want to. You want t relationship thats going to go somewhere someone who cares how you feel, make a step in your life today and make it clear that you dont want any kind of boyfriend relationship with him, so move on because you have!
2006-09-19 14:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost. You don't need someone in your life that is going to play head games with you. You also don't need someone in your life that is getting stoned. It doesn't sound like he would be much of an asset to your life.
Concentrate on your studies, find a caring, loving man who will respect you and put you above all others.
The type of man you are describing is a prescription for disaster. Find someone is will be a positive influence in your life, someone who will be there for you until the end.
Not some fly by night stoner that doesn't know his head from his ***.
You as a woman are worth more then that. And no woman deserves that kind of asshole in their life.
At your age you should be looking for a man who will compliment your life not cause pain and turmoil.
2006-09-19 21:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to slow down a little bit and let him know you need time to think about it take a second and i think hes embarrased about saying what he said thats why he said he lie
2006-09-19 21:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by TnT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That if he was stoned that ur virgin mary and to go screw him self and nothing needs more to be said... Or ignore the situation...
2006-09-19 21:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe have some time away will clear both minds!!!
2006-09-19 21:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What am I going to do with him?
Feed him to the lion
2006-09-19 21:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want a relationship with him,and see where it leads.
2006-09-19 21:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what he said and ask him if he really feels that way
2006-09-19 21:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like horny stoner, ditch him.
2006-09-19 21:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you have to ask "What am I going to do with him?" get rid of him!
2006-09-19 21:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋