I hate the special attention put on myself and I hate having to feel like I need to have some outrageous party. Its weird because I hate that my friends dont forget my b-day but then I will get mad if someone close forgets it. Its been like this since I was 12 or 13 and tomorrow Im turning 17. I havent really made any plans so if you have any ideas feel free to let me know. I dont know why I hate when my birthday comes around but I love when all my friends' birthdays come around. Your supposed to look forward to your b-day unless your old.Not me, I hate it.
2006-09-19 13:59:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell me about it!! im turning 17 next month and im dreading it too! maybe we hate the fact that we're growing up and we'll pretty much have to 'fend for ourselfs soon? i think after a while you just get sick of all the "hype" about your birthday and what you plan to do to celebrate it each year.
2006-09-19 14:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont look forward to mine either. I never really have. I think some people are just into birthday and like the attention. My birthday is next week. I got no plans. Im in a new town too and its kinda nice not to have the added birthday pressure.
2006-09-19 14:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by you know who 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im like that too. i dont want anybosy to know bu when it comes around i hate if someone forgets. The lucky thing about my birthday though is that its during christmas break so ill just invite one or two close friends and we will go out to dinner. with my family and them.
but dont worry about it too much. hope that helped and good luck.
2006-09-19 14:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by dark_angel_360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your getting older. I remember when I was just turning 17. Just look at my avatar ! That's what happens after too many Birthdays. lol Happy Birthday
2006-09-19 14:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by Trick69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my roomate also hates her birthday, then again she is very newly single and the guy friend who she is kind of seeing gave her a locket and every time she wears it she feels like she is suffocating. Last year her dad bought her flowers because he said that he said that no one else would. hope this helps ya.
2006-09-19 14:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same, i tell all my friends I don't celebrate it. My 19th passed by unnoticed but that made me feel sad too. You can't really win but i know exactly what you mean. I like my friends birthdays though.
2006-09-19 14:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Alley cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should respect your wishes.......took me forever to get through to my mom that he prefered pizza and one or two friends...just tell them you prefer a small quiet affair...maybe dinner out. Your old enough to know what you want and they need to respect that.
2006-09-19 14:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate that **** 2 i think it comes naturally happy b-day by the way
2006-09-19 14:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't put any expectations on it and treat it as any other day, you will never be disappointed.
2006-09-19 14:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by seizod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont feel bad i hate my b-day too lol....its just not for everyone.
2006-09-19 14:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋