Do you think you should have to work at love or should it com natuaraly?
2006-09-19 13:55:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It comes naturally, but It takes work to keep it going, when you have been married for a while, you start to take each other for granted, your spouse starts to annoy you to death, with their habits, So I say to keep the feeling of lust that , you can`t do it forever, but love is something you never really lose, but you have to work to keep the intrest going in the marriage.
2006-09-19 14:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by theladylooking 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that love should come naturally at first because that's our biological part screaming "Be attracted! Be attracted!" because your immune systems are compatible and your kids will have the best chance in surviving - the biological reasons why we fall in love in a hetero-sense.
Then, after this "honeymoon period" ends and love sort of fades away that's when you should work for it. Because... like what I always like to say... LOVE is a VERB. ;)
2006-09-19 21:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it comes natuaraly u still have to work @ it
2006-09-19 21:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by john s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a many spledoured thing,when it fevers the mind,the lovers senses are set a blaze.It's comes naturally can instantly boost your mood especially in first few weeks..that used to give you pleasure and joy..
2006-09-19 21:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a girl it comes naturally but for a boy work on it cause the boy need to ask a girl by saying hi first or something
2006-09-19 21:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by TnT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work at being best of friends and the love comes back MORE than naturally!!!!!!
2006-09-19 21:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by The Global Community 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it comes naturally, it is meant to be. If you have to work it could still be love, but if it is more trouble than it is worth, it is NOT LOVE it is LUST.
2006-09-19 20:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally. Don't force love because it's not real when it's forced.
2006-09-19 20:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lady tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It come naturally.
2006-09-19 21:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by JesusFreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know, a heatbreak could come just as naturally
2006-09-19 20:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋