My boyfriends car keeps breaking down, i lended him one already, he broke it down, Today he broke another one, and i had to drive him, and now i have to pick him up. None of my clients are pickin up their calls, i am stressed out as is and, i am tired and i am almost broke, because agents arent doing wat they are suppose to do and so now, what the hell should am i suppose to do?
2006-09-19 13:44:32 · 16 answers · asked by Ms Beautiful 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
poor baby, its ok everything will be fine, might want to find a rich bf
we ahve no idea what an agent is like is it NIS agent
2006-09-19 13:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit down and take a break. Have a cup of tea and relax.
Does your boyfriend fix the cars he broke...if not then he should. Seems you are doing a lot for him. Tell him you are stressed out and you need him to be more helpful to you. Tell him you have to take care of business and he is taking your attention away from it.
I do not know what business you are in but there is not a lot that you can do to make the clients answer your calls. Be sure that you are calm and polite when you leave a message.Go and talk to your agent and you will feel better for that. At least you will know what is going on.
But first of all talk to boyfriend....Tell him you need to think and sort things out and would he please be a bit more helpful. It is right that you are there to help him if he is in a spot of bother, but to have it happen over and over again can be a real chore, especially when everything else needs your attention at the same time. Try to relax and you will be able to see things clearly.
2006-09-19 21:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Learner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, some amazing answers here!
Make the boyfriend take the bus or look into telecommuting.
Call a meeting with all your agents and set them straight. And some days clients don't answer calls.
Next, go to a quiet room and contemplate the many blessings in your life. It is normal and acceptable to be frustrated and upset over bad things, but don't let them drive you into decisions that make things even worse.
When I had no heat in my house, and hardly any food for myself and my two children, I thanked God every day that I had a house and some beans to eat, and God blessed me with a very nice job, making 4 times what I was earning before. Be patient, and may God bless you.
2006-09-19 21:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mahdiya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this my guy dumped me last weekend for nothing more than a pair of bigger boobs. I lost my job in January becuase of layoff's and havent found work since. I have no car because i cant afford one, i lost my nice apartment and now have to live with someone else so i can continue to pay my bills, i may lose that place cause my unemployment insurance will run out in two weeks, i've been on so many interviews my feet hurt. No reply yet from anyone. Here's the real kicker, God is my hope and somehow someway He'll bring me through, not my intellect, drive, connections, or charm, just the amazing grace of God. Your right your having a bad day and as much as i pray for my own situations it doesnt lessen yours, and i ask God in faith that you sleep well and find your strength in Him. Tomorrow I pray God does some form of miracle in your life that you see He cares as much about you and your life as He does the rest of us. God Bless!!!
2006-09-19 20:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by glowchild7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To hell with cars and with this day, too! I come to work - and they tell me they don't need me today. So I drive home - and it's about 25 minute drive - and half way there my breaks stop working. Luckily, I wasn't driving too fast when I found this out!! Then I'm trying to install a dvd-burner at my neighbors, and I find out that I need a driver which I did not get, and I've no idea where to even start looking for one.....
Steve Irwin's wife, I'm pretty sure, is having a series of bad days.
Have you eaten today? Do you have a warm and cozy house? If so, then your life might not be as bad as it might have seemed today.
2006-09-19 20:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by masteronan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That Sucks, this might make you feel better:
I'm completely broke. I have had to borrow money for the last two months to pay bills. I am 7 months pregnant, unmarried, and stressed out over boyfriend who doesn't make enough to support himself. Whats worst, I believe the stress has finally took its toll. I am sick and coughing at work as I type..8.47pm EST because I need overtime....And I weigh 146 pounds----5 pounds less than I did 7 months ago.
But, I'm still smiling though...because I'm not alone, abused, or without shelter. My awesome boyfriend will be home when I get there with open arms. I still feel blessed through it all. Hopefully, you will feel this way soon.
2006-09-19 20:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Purple 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Those problems are all temporary. Put your problems in perspective and find out what a real problem is...cancer, death, etc. You'll get by just stay strong and dont let the problems seem bigger than they are. Attacking one problem at a time is the key. If you look at a big pile of bills for instance you get stressed, but taking one by one will help you cope with the situation better.
2006-09-19 20:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Murfdigidy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go run a very hot bath with aroma lavendar salts if you have any. Get a good book to lose yourself in . put on some soft music. get a glass of wine. Shut out the world around you and just soak for awhile...like my daughter says...until I'm frinkled.
2006-09-19 20:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by mortgagegirl101 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you been sinning? God looks down upon those who partake in wild sex. Jesus should be the only man in your life. You boyfriend is a manifestation of all the evil karma surrounding you. Exorcise him from your world. Start praying and go to church to repent your sins.
Maybe tomorrow will be a better day... BUT it will only get worst if you don't start thumping the bible and read it like a true believer.
2006-09-19 20:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by Skyeboi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow - it sounds like you've got a lot on your plate, but I don't think you should be expected to eat it all.
Maybe you have to get priorities in place, and take care of them in order of their importance.
I remember reading once that if we all put our problems in a bag and hung it on a tree branch, then we all walk around the tree - free to choose any bag - we would take our own bag back.
2006-09-19 20:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by JubJub 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you posted this under the Religion and Spirituality area, I guess you should pray. I'm an atheist, but that's the answer you'll be getting here.
2006-09-19 20:47:20 · answer #11 · answered by Kathryn™ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋