Ok, I told this boy that I really really like (but are still in the "friends stage") and I thought I could tell him anything, a huge secret while online and he acted alright about it at first. (The secret was about an eating disorder that I came out in the open with) Then the next time I saw him he was acting all weird and it was almost like he was avoiding me. Could it be because 2 of his ex's were there??? or do you think he was weirded out by the secret, or he doesn't like me because of it??? or what? I'm still young (high school) and don't know what to do because I really want him to like me or at least talk to me...HELP!
2006-09-19 13:14:51 · 6 answers · asked by Mary Ann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, no froggie...I'm the one who asked him to keep the secret. I was the one with the eating disorder (although it's getting taken care of now so no worrys) But I told him about MY eating disorder and now it seems like he won't even look me in the eyes.
2006-09-19 13:23:14 · update #1
okay so you are still in high school and you told your guy friend about an eating disorder and expected him to act like nothing happened? this was never going to happen. he is probably overwhelmed because he would never know why it happened or how to fix it. guys like problems they can fix like a flat tyre and girls are the ones that you have deep and meaningfuls about things because they can empathise. you need to appraoch him and say hi and not bring the subject up until he does. neither of you have done anything wrong but you are in high school and that's not exactly the place where people are upfront and honest about their feelings. talk to him, be patient and good luck.
2006-09-19 13:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You betrayed someones trust and now he know you cannot be trusted. you told on someone and why wouldn't you spill some secret of his. You blew it. When someone trusts you keep that trust.
2006-09-19 20:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a big shock when you tell someone that... he prob feels that if you 2 went out, it could be very akward, and that he would have to take care of you...
2006-09-19 20:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him why he's avoiding you.Maybe he's uncomfortable because he doesn't know what to do and how to talk to you.Just talk to him,at least you will know what's going on.
2006-09-19 20:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that what burn said is right on the money.
2006-09-19 21:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha
2006-09-19 20:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Aycilla 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋