he's really funny and cute and most of the time he's nice....he goes to my school and whenever is see him in the hall he says hi or does something funny like the i'm watching you thing where you point to your eyes and point to a person.....i really like him....today a few kids in my class found out that i liked him and they know him and they started telling all their friends that i like him!! including the guy i like's brother!!! i'm really nervous that he's going to find out that i like him and i don't know what to do and i'm kinda hate to say it scared....help please!! : )
2006-09-19 13:12:34 · 14 answers · asked by bball_rox_lots 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's ok to be scared, it's ok to be all excited too -- it's part of the process of growing up. I'd be careful about telling too many people about your crushes, because you never know who is going to be jealous, and try to change the message around, so that they look "more special" in the eyes of the 9th grader, than you might seem to him. whatever you do, should he "find out" that you like him (school is a small place, no doubt he already knows - that sort of thing is hard to keep secret), and should he come up to you to talk - just be natural, be yourself, and be honest. Don't try to impress him, or talk in a way that you think he might like better. Do NOT dress in a way that you think he would like better. Just be yourself. It's the easiest, most simple thing, and besides, it's your true self that finds him so adorable. If he is so wonderful, he'll appreciate that a heck of alot more than a barbie doll dressed as you think he'd might like. Don't have all your friends hanging around when you finally do talk to him. Good luck!
2006-09-19 13:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Honey, Dont be scared. At least he'll know you like him. Walk proud into school tomorrow! Say Yeah I like him. You never know, he might like you too and it might be an ice breaker. But don't go into school all shy and embarassed. It was meant for him to find out..
Oh wow, Just read the other responses. I'm 33 and my mother would tell me No Boy over 2 years difference. (While I was in high school) And thats what I tell my 11 year old also. I dont see anything wrong with a 7th and a 9th grader. I also have a 13 year old.
2006-09-19 13:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by AngWings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he generally says hi and does something to make you laugh. Do not sweat this. He likes you too. Also remember this one key thing he is lucky that you like him. Along with you are lucky he likes you. Not one of you is more lucky than the other it is a balance. Got it you are not beneath him and do not have to be ever so grateful to him just b/c ur younger. He definently likes you even if he says no. Cus a guy wont waste his time saying hi or trying to get you to smile otherwise. Just breathe through the moments and pretend if you have to that your calm.
2006-09-19 13:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just not that big of a age difference to sweat it. maybe the boy will find out that you like him and he will ask you to the movies or something. him being told doesnt have to be a bad thing it could all work out for the best, and because you sound so sweet i hope it does. dont be afraid im sure every thing will be alright.
2006-09-19 14:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a guy who was in 9th grade who liked a 5th grader they go out now lol
2006-09-19 13:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Hey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.....you are too young for a 9th grader. Let this be a lesson.....don't share you personal feelings for a boy with anyone. At that age, no one can keep their mouth shut.
2006-09-19 13:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my calculations are acceptable you're round 12 years previous; because you're interior the seventh grade. i ought to sugges that you no longer actually have a boyfriend till you're previous sufficient to understand what it truly ability to be with someone and in love with someone. i'm no longer announcing it truly is incorrect to have a weigh down on the fashion of boys that you're attracted to, yet why are you in one of those hurry to imagine human being commonplace jobs? if you're courting an older guy, he will rigidity you to do issues sexually that you'll no longer be waiting or smooth in doing. the reason that i understand it really is b/c i turned right into a 14 year previous boy once and that i understand what's on their minds. boys are completely distinct than women at the same time as it is composed of relationships. women are a lot more advantageous emotionally appropriate and adult males are actual and seen. ought to this guy be the only and in reality human being for you? it truly is available, yet not likely. if i have been you, i ought to easily attempt to celebrate with my time as an adolescent (next year) and in no way assume a lot responsibility of having a boyfriend. it truly is not any longer as a lot relaxing because it ought to look, fantastically if he dumps you on your acceptable pal. boys will do stupid such issues as that b/c their boys. regrettably, it truly is merely the way issues are and in case you could ward off the placement for various more advantageous years, you'd be a lot more advantageous acceptable off interior the destiny. solid luck to you. aj
2016-11-28 02:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't worry about him finding out....he knows. Have fun with it, be confident...after all he is flirting back. You don't have to confirm or deny the rumor...then it's just a rumor. Remember everyone has someone they like and everyone has someone who likes them.
2006-09-19 13:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by L.lion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if the word is out - see how reacts over the next few days, then look for an opportunity to talk to him....could be fun!
2006-09-19 13:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by RT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe if he finds out it might turn out good because you never no he might like you back.
2006-09-19 13:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋