a lot of women wonder why when men have lots of partners theyre "players" but when women do theyre "skanks, hoes or slluts" And i agree women should be able 2 be just as permiscious as men with out being labled, but the thing is what ive noticed is that its usually other women calling women these names, so why do women look 2 men and wonder why their called these things
2006-09-19 13:07:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's my opinion, baby boy, that the "women" that call "women" all of those names are jealous that they aren't the ones with the self confidence to be in control of their own sexuality.
The old "double standard" when it comes to sex, will never die out completely, nor will the fact that there's always gonna be SOMEONE that sees how you live your life, as wrong, promiscuous, or too dangerous.
BUT!!! It takes all kinds to make the world go "round"... ((and it takes TWO to tango))!!
2006-09-19 13:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy.... but....i've heard enough about this to form my own conclusion.
Its because the "skanky" women get the great guys a lot easier because they put out. While the women that hold themselves to higher moral levels, get angry that women that the women that dont have a lot going for them...simply put out and get to take home the prize. I can understand the frustration... but the problem is that labeling another woman as a skank or a slut wont do anything to enhance your ability to bring home a great guy. Just remember...that if a guy is dating a "slut" or a "skank" then the odds are ... that they too are the male versions of "sluts", and wouldn't make the ideal partner. Therefore, you aren't losing as great a guy as you think you are. If he is a great guy..it wont take long for him to realize what a slut she is, and dump her.
This is when you make your triumphant entrance into their lives.
2006-09-19 20:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have that down to a tee. I have been saying the same thing for years, in my book, male or female, if you are sleeping with numerous people you a whore. There is or should i say, there shouldn't be a difference, in reality, men usually have more partners then the women anyway. But then again, i guess men are God, right.
2006-09-19 20:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by aswingerof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think women call each other names like skank and ho, because if they point the finger at someone else, no one will be looking at who is sneaking into their own bed. women are far more harsh on each other, and on themselves, than men are toward women. yet, there seems to be such a hideous fear women have, of being "found out" - so it's hard to admit that to each other. Crazy, competitive world out there, it is, it is.
2006-09-19 20:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you phrased that question very well,..and i also agree that women should be able to satisfied their wants and needs just as often as any man,...without the name calling. I say it is usually jealousy that causes the women to do that to one another.
I find women that are not scared to act on sex when....and with who they want to be very attractive. I don't mean that because they are easy,...i mean that because they are in control of their lives,....their choices. They are to busy living to worry about what others think of them,.....that is a vanishing quality in today's society. I say.....it's your body Ladies,...and it's always your choice.
2006-09-19 21:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us woman are just a veru jealous kind and if there is something that we want and another woman is in our way it jyst seems easier to cut her up.. I agree with u though, majority of the time its girls calling other girls those names.
2006-09-19 20:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one thinks i am trampy because on one knows how many people i have been with not even me i also don't crap where i sleep if i want to go dik hunting i go fifty miles away to the city where no one knows me if i go with friends i don't look for guys
2006-09-19 20:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy or just plain sticking their noses in someone else's business.
2006-09-19 20:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noway dude men call women sluts 2 , and they do it alot
2006-09-19 20:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the world today is strange its like y people feel sorry for me when there are kids dieing u no
2006-09-19 20:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by all_canadin_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋