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2006-09-19 12:48:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

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im guessing he is a teenager and in my opinion its something to be expected...my advice is to not go mad at him but rather talk to him if u feel that u need to...id much rather my son watch porn to relieve teenage sexual tenion than go out and force himself on a girl...i think its the lesser of two evils.

2006-09-19 12:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by yep ive left 3 · 0 0

how old is he? I have a son also that's just turning sixteen, I'm a single dad, so I'm probably easier on him than I would be if I were married, however, I've also found porno in his room when he was 12, it was under his mattress, like I wouldn't find it, but I just took it away and never said anything, we've talked about sex, and all the birds and bees stuff that our parents taught us, but in this day of the computer age, anyone can find anything their looking for regardless of how we try to protect them from it, and almost any kid out there from the age of ten is much more adept at surfing the net than most of us "flower children", we just have to deal with it as best we can, answer the questions and be HONEST with these kids, they are smarter than we were at their age, and hopefully, they'll know what to do when the time comes for them to make adult decisions because of what they have learned from us, in being honest with them, maybe they will return the favor. I can ONLY hope!

2006-09-19 13:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by vrscsr2003 1 · 0 0

If he is a teenager I agree with everyone else, sit him down and talk to him. Have the sex talk, but remember to stay calm.
More than likely it's your best bet to let him keep the pornos because if you take them he will just find a way to get more.

2006-09-19 13:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by turtlegirl247 1 · 0 0

Well that would depend on how old he was. If he is 14 and older, I wouldn't worry about it. As long as you have told him the facts of life, he is a hormonal teenager. Hes just being curious. If he is younger then I would sit him down and explain to him the facts of life. And that the women in those mags are real people with real feelings. Be open and honest with him. The more you are to him the more he is to you!

2006-09-19 12:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You should let me know the age of your son... Is he 5, 15, 25? What kind of male role-model does he have? That will most likely tell you which direction to head in. I always say "pick your fights." This may not be one of them. It's really very normal.

2006-09-19 12:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

specific... sweep those matters under the rug. Or as a result into the bin. i'm specific which will lead them to bypass away. you are able to desire to talk to him approximately this. How will he study issues in case you purely bypass away him to it? A disappearing dvd can no longer teach him something. you are able to desire to tell him it extremely is common and healthful to be having sexual urges, yet clarify to him that pornos are no longer an precise portrayal of intercourse, women folk and truthfully no longer of what's the 'impressive' thank you to act whilst it includes actual relationships. tell him you are able to extremely he did no longer watch pornos as you sense it extremely is (despite you sense it extremely is, yet demeaning to females is a sturdy one). you additionally must point out out how even the porno stars could desire to positioned on condoms, and have a communication approximately secure intercourse with him. he's the right age now to hearken to the nitty gritty. additionally factor out which you desire he can 'shop it in his pants' until he's a minimum of 18, and ideally until he meets Mrs impressive. How will he be attentive to what your hopes and desires are for him (incredibly approximately once you prefer to be a grandma) until you tell him?

2016-10-17 07:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If he is living in your house then throw them out. My son when he was 16 was listening to rap music (I am not a big fan), so I listened to it and heard some of the grosses things that they talked about. Well I threw them out. When he asked I told him what I did and that while he was in my house I don't want that crap in it. Even though it did not stop him from listening to it, he knew my feelings and that style of music was never in the house again.

2006-09-19 15:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by morris 5 · 0 0

My husband says to sit him down and have the talk. Tell him that you found them. That it's perfectly natural for him to be curious. Just be sure and let him know that not all woman look like that. Remember to stay calm. Your little man is growing up!

2006-09-19 12:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by glitz_and_glitter 3 · 0 0

Thats bad. Take them and sit down and talk with him. If he has a big problem, take away the comp or mags or where ever hes getting them from. Go 2 church. Christians r awesome! Christ is so awesome in my life. Poron is wrong. He'll learn that sometime in life.

2006-09-19 12:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Stop- leave them alone and let him grow up. he's discovering his sexuality and doesn't need to be embarrassed about it or told that it's sinful by you or anyone else. he's a boy...he has a pen!s he's going to have curiosities. buy him condoms and be open and mature enough to let him come to you with any questions he might have...communication is very important. He needs to know he can come to you and that you wont make fun of him or make him feel insecure...again communication is key!

2006-09-19 12:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

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