Im having trouble with girls at school i cant really talk to them because i do not know what to say?

Question

what should ido

Answer 1

Just be friendly and ask simple getting-to-know-you questions. Usually if you begin talking to a girl you don't usually talk to, she will understand that you might like her. You don't need to try to show it. Feeling like a guy is obsessed with me is kind of a turn off. Just try to be natural, and if the conversation slows down a little, don't freak out. Stay cool.

Answer 2

Its not easy to strike up a conversation at school because of the thousands of distractions and the friend factor I mean every time you do start to converse a person always steals into the conversation , Say hi as you would and then have a prethough of topic to chat about Like a common interest a event that might be happening or happened Don't try stretching the first talk out to long because its a terrible thing that silence that occurs when your to shy to talk just say hi and ask how things and then the topic you decide upon and then say see ya and go If you have made a good impression then next time you can add a little more time to it . just also remember be yourself don't over act or try being soooo ccooool . just be you because that's what you want them to be them selves . good luck pal . hope this helps you out aye

Answer 3

It doesn't matter what you say if you say it with confidence. Think of a question like "Hey Julie, do you have the homework assignment for algebra? I left mine in my locker and wanted to start it. Thanks Julie your the best." and walk away with confidence. Always ask more questions. It makes you sound interested in them and puts you in control because your making them answer. Practice then go to the mall and just go up to girls and ask them for directions to stores. Try like 10 or 156 girls the first day. Some will be snotty but some will be very nice. You are not picking up girls the first time and if they want to talk more you are busy but you will see them later and ya'll can talk then. Be confident and practice questions and you will be picking up hotter girls than you ever thought. They are just people. the secret is talk to as many as possible until you find the best one.

Answer 4

Just say hi, how are you...did you have a nice weekend... do you have brothers or sister...just the basic things you want to know about them...it's unpolite not to answer a question so the will probably answer you...

Answer 5

LOL... aWwWww... how cute! dont worry... i had a friend like that in middle school... dont be a perv... or nothing like that... just be yourself... go up to them and say "Hey"... then continue to do that for a couple of days... (like a week and 1/2)... THEN... after that ask them how their day was... and so on... take it slow... not too fast..or elsey ou'll freak them out... LOL... dont worry...=]

Answer 6

find out the things they like, and try to talk to them about that stuff. ask them there fav. band, after you say hi, and tell them that you've heard stuff about them and you want to get to know them.

for the record, this dosen't work on snooty cheerleeders( not all cheerleaders are bad) and snobby girls.

Answer 7

Hmm. seems such as you have a mega weigh down in this lady. that is candy :) in case you notice her interior the hall, and you dont experience like speaking to her. .. walk previous her and smile, to instruct her your open to speak to :D friendly.

Answer 8

Hit the gym flat out and get ripped, after a few months they will be so obsessed with your new hot bod they will be throwing themselves at you :)

Answer 9

start by saying hi

Answer 10

b cooool it will come 2 u