Okay I have two questions, 1. I have a new boyfriend and not my first beut my mom never found out about the otheres before sould I tell he I am 15,
2.How can I get my boyfriend to hold my hand we have only held hands like 3 times in two days at my school that is very little I sit by him at lunch but how can I get him to hold my hand cuz the other times I held his hand but i want him to hold mine
2006-09-19 12:14:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was a mom to a teenage daughter and I think at 15, without going into to many details of your "relationship" with this "boy", I think it would be good to let her know that you have an interest in him!LIke what's his name ? Where he lives? How old he is? What he eats for breakfast? {no! just joking!} That kind of stuff , just because we care! Anything other than that is strictly voluntary!{ personal stuff!}Maybe it's time for that "mother and daughter" talk if you haven't had it already!}Then I'm sure she would give you some "motherly advice! Now on the holding hands! Not in school! I think that's what he's doing if you're the one trying to hold his hand and he doesn't hold yours! Maybe he's just not ready to let anyone know that he likes you in that way! Maybe he's just not ready to let his "guy" friends see him in that way! If he acts one way in school and differently when you're together this could be a good reason!Don't force him, if he's even held your hand I think that it must mean he's interested, unless he didn't want to hurt your feelings by pulling away.You made your move , now let him make the next and see where it goes!
2006-09-19 12:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by noditz57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationships isn't all about holding hands. i know it feels nice to let people know you are a couple. but just being with him should be enough. don't worry. he might feel a bit insecure too around public so don't embarrass him. you don't need to tell your mom now, but if you think it's a serious relationship ( i don't mean getting married) but if you've been with him for a while and you thinks his worthy then let your mom know. wait maybe at least a year cuz you are still too young. but remember to focus on other things too so your mom won't have excuses for you not to be together.
2006-09-19 19:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by littleasiangirl2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Christ sake, maybe you should be worried about your grammar and getting a better education than some dumb kid you're going to break up with in a few minutes. Best word of advise I can give, bypass the whole high school dating and click thing and get a good education, go to college, then worry about that ****.
Don't get knocked up when you're 15 and live on welfare the rest of your life.
2006-09-19 19:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by neofascistpriest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need a different bf. because he seems to be ashamed of you or embarrassed to be around you. But sometimes it's not like that he just probably to shy. Break him in and get him comfortable around you and others. Yes, tell your mom you have nothing to hide. You are old enough.
2006-09-19 19:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is the same situation that i am goin through. i just told my mom that this kid liked me and wanted to go out with me and that i told him that i would. n the holding hand thing, well while you guys are walking near each other just play with his fingers and hold his hand it works and if u keep doin that then he is bound to hold your hand. well good luck
2006-09-19 19:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by ~kAyLa-BaBy~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her let life go on in Peace dont make trouble and stop holding his hand for a while he will miss it and hold urs does ur mom no abiyt ur bf right now?
2006-09-19 19:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by all_canadin_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with your mum, she may not like it but she rather u tell her than she find out later on when you two get more serious. i would say jsut give him some time he be a guy who doesnt like giving affection out in public, but dont push him. when he wants to do it he will and when he does it will feel so special believe me!
2006-09-19 19:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by angelinyourdreams99_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jajajaja... well 1. yes, you should tell your mother. your old enough to havea bf already.. let her know that so she knows you truste her :)
2. hes probably toooo shy to grab your hand, give the poor guy some time!!
luck :)
2006-09-19 19:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not crazy. What's crazy is that you used 10 point to ask the same question.
2006-09-19 19:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL aww to be 15 your younger then that huh holding hands... lmao :P
2006-09-19 19:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by sw!ss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋