If you want to tell your mate you love them, but are nervous and apprehensive, and not sure of their reaction, how do you do it ? You, don't want to scare them, but you want them to know. I want to do it so it's romantic but not "pressuring".
2006-09-19 11:44:05 · 21 answers · asked by aviatorannie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should know when the right time is
but my boyfriend was nervous because he didnt know if i thought he was moving to fast for it. he said "how would you feel if i told you i loved you" and i told him i didnt know and he asked if id rather he didnt and i kinda just shrugged. bc i knew that i loved him but admitting it lets all the gaurds around my heart down, you know? so that was that. then on the ride home i realized i was crazy and that i could trust him more than anyone ive ever been with. so when he walked me to the door i kissed him and told him i loved him. i think it really was the perfect moment becuase i could tell how happy he was in his eyes it was wonderful
good luck
2006-09-19 11:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is ment to be, then you will know the right time to say those 3 magical words "I LOVE YOU".
You could start out with writing a letter or sending a card & sign it i love you, then move on from there, have a nice dinner, with candles in a dim lit room, tell this person how you feel. Or rent an airplane with a banner that has the persons name i love you and your name, write i love you in red lipstick on the bathroom mirror. There are many ways to do it, use your imagination. GOOD-LUCK
2006-09-19 11:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by karen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Build-A-Bear (they are all over the country)
Make her a bear
Put a voice recorder in the hand and say something that means something to the both of you and end it with, I love you, (Your Name).
Since you are too nervous, leave the bear on her bed for when she gets home after work (or school or whatever) with a note attached saying "Press my hand" or something to that effect.
She'll press it, and you won't be there, but she'll (in my opinion) be very pleased to hear that.
Just an idea....it certainly worked on me!
As for WHEN to say it....well, you certainly don't want to say it within the first three months or immediately after doing the deed within those first three months. However, if you were to say it anytime after 6 months have passed would be acceptable. Again, this is just my opinion. Hope it helps though!
2006-09-19 11:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by MissKate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would look for signs that my mate like me too, otherwise make no sense to declare my love. Some signs would be that hits face would iluminate when it spots me instantly and with no waith, that would not make gloomy faces when I give something a present that is not expensive try flowers,love letters ,walks,spend time togheter not just touching each other sexually, but tenderly, then you might know it trully loves you and you will find out it's interest on you , then if it does love you Great you can procceed , it might be waithing for you to thell it you love hem. god luck!!
2006-09-19 11:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by searchingforlight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the right time when you are positive that it is love, not lust. It's the right time when you know you can't live without them (you can, dear, but you don't want to). It's the right time when you know it in your very bones. Good luck to you and don't be afraid. Love is wonderful and the best gift you can give your mate.
2006-09-19 11:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think she or he will do? Try to say it without sounding pushy. Only once depending on how the other person reacts. You got to throw out your emotions out there, if the other person loves you back nothing bad can happen. But please don't keep pushing it if you don't get a reaction. It will come. Give it time. Actions not words!
2006-09-19 12:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by chiquita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to say this when you know the other person is listen and also when you know you are ready to say this to them. You really need to make sure that you are in love. You need to make sure that you are ready to take your relationship to the next level. If you are go and ready, go ahead, just do not say it for the first time during sex, that really is bad.
2006-09-19 11:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends, only you would know how your mate feels by the way he/she is with you.it also depends on how much time you spend with each other. and it usually comes naturally...so be careful..if you are saying you are nervous about it then sounds like you are not sure..usually you will know and be more confident doing it.
2006-09-19 11:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always pressuring when you move from one point to the next even if the other person feels the same.
You'll know when it's right.
2006-09-19 11:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by hoddin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them out first to a movie or somethin and then tell the famous delicate words.
2006-09-19 11:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋