how many of you give advice to someone to leave their man and then stay with your own? i dont condone it but id never say im gonna leave him because he cheated, i think it depends on with who, is it a constant thing, one time thing, and from my experiences men are gonna cheat regardless so if you are gonna leave a man for cheating why not leave men alone period? im not saying if he fuhks around on you with ya best friend stay but if he was to get his ying yang sucked at the strip club ( not all stippers do it but u know sum will ) i wouldnt be as hurt he may have to re earn that trust, but its not that personal to me. So when u say you woud leave him would u for real or are you just hopeing someone else is strong enough to do it? like i said i dont condone it but i feel theres stipulations to everything
2006-09-19 10:53:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not about settling with a man who does these things im not gonna stay with someone who cheats cuz theyre the best around, only if i really feel like me n this person are both in love, some people say god made man weak for woman i dont know but thats just me i appreciate the honesty and realness n the answers though surprised i havent gotten any one saying do you respect yourself cuz i do i also respect the fact that were both humans, and i do regret the fact that i said all men chat cuz u right pink they dont. - i know a few good ones mah self.
2006-09-19 11:24:23 · update #1
its not about settling with a man who does these things im not gonna stay with someone who cheats cuz theyre the best around, only if i really feel like me n this person are both in love, some people say god made man weak for woman i dont know but thats just me i appreciate the honesty and realness n the answers though surprised i havent gotten any one saying do you respect yourself cuz i do i also respect the fact that were both humans, and i do regret the fact that i said all men chat cuz u right pink they dont. - i know a few good ones mah self.
2006-09-19 11:25:28 · update #2
I agree with you wholeheartedly, one small thing though, not all men cheat. My Grandpa never cheated on my Grammy. I digress, I sincerely doubt that most women follow their own advice let alone anyone.
2006-09-19 11:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I tell someone to leave, it would be exactly what I would do. I too think most men cheat but I will never just give up and accept a man who gets a bj at the strip club. That is just not what my life is going to be about. I'm either going to get back what I give or nothing at all. I have plenty of male friends with benefits to keep me busy in the meantime.
2006-09-19 17:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lasting relationship is about trust. If the trust is gone, the relationship is over. Why hang around with someone you don't trust only to be hurt again and again? Your choice.
2006-09-19 17:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and I left him, flat out no second chance. Once a cheat always a cheat. I have no regrets that I left.
2006-09-19 17:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, follow your own advice
2006-09-19 17:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you feel comfortable with.
2006-09-19 17:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋