Ok well, I like this guy and he has a girlfriend, and so he looks at me and yeah etc. But me and my friend we made a note together, a love note, and gave it to him during lunch period. When lunch was over, he opened and looked at it, but I don't know what his reaction was because I just ran down the hall not knowing what was going to happen next.. and then we were at the locker area and when i was just going to 5/6 period I saw a girl looking at the note with a reaction like "WHAT?" OMG?!" etc. But in 5/6 we did a handshake type thing and so I don't know what to do or what's going to happen how do I fix this I feel like im going to get slapped by his girlfriend or something!?
2006-09-19 10:35:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you do, you certainly have it coming.
No woman likes a little homewrecker.
Sorry, but it's the truth.
What the he** are you doing scamming on someone else's boyfriend anyway? Can't you get your own man?
Sorry honey, if you get your face slapped, you deffinitely have it coming.
2006-09-19 10:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that he showed another girl the note means he's probably not into you. Maybe he gave you a handshake just to be nice, but don't read into it any more than that, I'm sure it was nothing. The best thing to do is ignore everything, go on like it never happened. Don't pay any attention to him or the girls, just act like you could care less, like it was your joke. If you play into it, you'll only get hurt. Remember, he has a girlfriend, he's with her. Start looking at other potential guys, & this time, don't write a note you wouldn't want anyone else to see.
2006-09-19 17:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're in a sucky situation, but seriously, think about it, How would you like it if this guy was your boyfriend and some girl gave him a love note?...You'd wanna kick her butt! It's only human nature, So why shouldn't she be mad?...Not to be a smart alec or anything, but the best thing you can do is find your own man instead of stealing someone else's.
2006-09-19 17:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey he has a girlfriend. Let it go and find you a boyfriend of your own. No good can come of this and in the end it will be you that gets hurt. You might get slapped and you would deserve it. I'd slap you too if you went after my man
2006-09-19 17:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she shouldn't slap you its not right its not as if anything is happening between you. maybe you should talk to the guy and ask him how he feels and if he does like you then he should do the responsible thing and choose who he likes most, no matter what don't let his girl push u around and if he says he doesn't feel the same give things a bit of time and just be friends
2006-09-19 17:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by haha_islaughing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anytime I've ever thought a guy was hot or smart or both and I would enjoy dating him, I would imagine what it would be like. I'd picture us going out to certain places and doing things together, like talking about interesting things, hugging, watching a movie, dancing, etc. Then I would let it all go. I would say to myself, "Now I've pretty much had him, so I don't NEED to be with him." And once you quit chasing, he just comes to you. Works every time. It also works in other areas of your life - just imagine yourself already having something you desire, feel like you already have it, and then it will just come to you.
2006-09-19 17:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well this is so easy but i just want to give you some advice ...just think about it this guy have a girl would he leave her for me(you)? if in any case he would do that , do you think that he will be a good boy for you , if he did it once dont you think he will dump you as he dump his other girl ...and by the way he is not the only guy in the world or in your school there are a lot of guy single and even better than him , in my case i woldnt dump my girl 4 any one else and to fix that dont even bring that theme when u r with her or dont talk about it just relax and talk about other stuff u know ....
hope this will help you ..
2006-09-19 17:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was the gf I would slap you for real. I think you should respect the fact that this guy is taken. How woul you feel if you were her and somebody was sending love notes to your boyfriend?
2006-09-19 17:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently he doesn't feel the same attraction to you. Why else would he show the note to someone else, possibly his girlfriend? You knew he had a girlfriend, so why are you trying to stick your slimy little fingers in someone else's pie? If he was your man, would you want someone else trying to get with him?
Nuff said!
2006-09-19 17:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by michaelks63 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just watch your back for her!! As for him, don't do nothin more. Just wait and see if he replies or tries to get closer to you, or breaks up with her. If he likes you, don't chase after him. Let it all come naturally. You've done your part. She crosses you, laugh at her!
2006-09-19 17:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by Tesra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋