I just want to say think you so much for all of you who been answering my Questions today. I am just crying I cant eat I cant do my work. My bf is just making me so miserable like about 4 hours ago he said he will call back and he hung up on me and know I called him like 3 times and finally he answer the phone and I said how come u didn’t answer it. And he said that he was getting dress and I said were u going?? He said to my fathers house and he start talking about how I ask him the same Q because I don’t trust him and I always ask him Q and I said I just want to know were u going and I start crying and I hung up the phone. He didn’t even try to call me back. What do u say to that kind of person. he talks about he loves me and he wants to be with me. why does he act like this? what should I do. How should I talk to him I cant stop crying I am so angry?
2006-09-19 10:23:19 · 35 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry you are going through this. I know it is tough and hurts a lot but you have to stand up for yourself. Do not let him treat you in anyway that you don't want to be treated. It doesn't sound like he cares very much and may feel smothered by your questions. You should be able to ask and not get a lecture. I think you said it best when you said your bf makes you miserable. That is a sign to get out. You are in to deep and it will hurt a lot but in the long run you will be much happier. Some day you will meet someone and you will be so happy that you aren't still with this guy. Good luck to you.
2006-09-19 10:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by k b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all.. call down, relax and think.
Im woman too, and we sometimes rush thoughts to our minds and we start thinking wrong ideas.
Probably he is busy or doing something where he has no time to explain, talk to him later, dont be sad about it, usuallyl when you push or ask more to a guy they just tend to go from us, is his nature.
Now, trust is a really important thing, for both of you ... ask yourself why you dont trust him, what he did and what happen. According to that and if the relation has soemetime, you probably will be able to talk with him and have a serius conversation about it.
And the most important... dont get yourself down for a man, despite of what happen think first in YOU, and that if wont work with him, you will find someone else.. ok i know the feeling of being alone is really scary, but the time is a good cure for most everything .... cheer up, go out with your friends or do something that will keep your mind away of the thoughts that you have now.
Well maybe i cant help to much, but from heart, i wish you good luck with this
2006-09-19 10:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sortilegio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christ almighty! You damn teens and this angst over boyfriends, girlfriends, cheating, etc. You see..this is why the majority of you never can make a relationship work. just like the generation before you....you have no social skills. You kids don't know the fine art of communication. unless it's on a damn computer, cell phone, ipod, bipod or tripod...whatever.
Look...kid. Grow up huh? He's a teenager. Try not to get too involved with anyone until you graduate from college and get into the work force. learn how to talk to people or how to shut them off like a damn switch when they tick you off.
You obviously depend too much on advice here. Maybe you'll find it refreshing if you make a decision on your own instead of asking for advice for the love stricken on Yahoo. At least if you make a bad decision you can always say it was your choice and not the suggestion of someone else.
2006-09-19 10:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, first off, a guy doesn't want someone that is insecure. And from this, you are very insecure. You are going about this the wrong way. You have to trust him and go on. Guys don't like to be asked too many questions, if they don't want to talk they aren't going to. You crying to him, shows the you are weak and you will always be there no matter what happens. Guys also don't like talking about the same things over and over again. You are being too clingy of a girlfriend and nobody likes that. Live your life with him there, but don't worry about what he does. If he does something to lose your trust, then talk to him, but you need to realize that you are driving him crazy.
2006-09-19 10:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is going to your fathers house, He isn't running away is he? He is probably just as frustrated with you as you are with him.Probably needs a little space for now, perhaps til you stop whining and crying? I can't tell how old you are but you sound very young.. I think you need to start learning how to deal with him and life in a more mature way..try to calm down and think clearly, Call him after you can control yourself. The conversation will go smoother I am sure..
Good luck young lady
2006-09-19 10:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...
hope you aren't crying right now
well all i can say is
no one is worth your tears because the one who is worth it wont let you cry
i would tell you to move on...
it seems that he is not that into you...
not because something you did...but maybe you are too much for him...i would tell you fight for him if it seemed he really loves you...but nothing he did shows that he cares...
if i love some one i wont end a phone call with till things are ok...even if i wasnt ok...wont pay this back to my girl friend...
so stop crying and know you deserve some one thats much better...and you should be in bad relations so you would know the good one when you be in it...
good luck in your life...but dont think that this guy is your escence of life...do your work...eat...cheer up..he wont do you any good...if you are down or depressed...
turn on some cheerishing music...think in positive way...
and if you love him or anything...be tough and talk to him about it
and tell him you wont accept him not giving you enough care..
and if he wont be changing so to hell with that:)
i believe u really deserve some one better...i know
good luck..
and please dont cry ok...
plz
2006-09-19 10:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by alexandre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bad relationship. You need to move on. If you don't trust him there is a reason why. Either you have trust issues, which you need to examine. Or he is a cheat and your gut is telling you, in which case you need to listen. You need to stop crying and get your head focussed on work, yourself, etc. Letting yourself get so wrapped up in another person, giving someone else THAT much power over YOUR life is not a good habit. Break it now.
2006-09-19 10:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by mizzofficer2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel about him, and how long you guys have been together.The longer you have been together it may be time to move on and if it is just a short time then you should try and work it out...Wait no the other way around. Sorry. You should cool down and block him out for a few days and see how he likes being ignored the way you do.
2006-09-19 10:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn,t it about time to call it a day on this? u deserve some1 who will treat u with the respect u so greatly need at this moment. why be so sad when there is some1 out there who will love u & treat u right. i know u think everything is bad at the moment but time heals & it will make u a stronger person. trust me, ive been there. im sure all the decent ppl on here will help u as well. good luck
2006-09-19 10:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The calling each other and hanging up thing never works the way you want it to. Most of the time when you hang up on a guy, he wont call back. Its a guy thing I suppose. Maybe you should call a friend, a REALY good one that wont make you feel dumb. Have them come over and calm you down, help eat and get yourself together and then make a list of things you want to communicate to your bf before you call him back.
2006-09-19 10:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋