Any reason to be worried?
I was recently legaly seperated but now we got back together and its working out good , during that time I was seperated I had sex with a old freind just once and I have been worried she could be pregnant. She had her tubes tied 17 years ago and she is 41 and she thinks i am nuts, She has had 2 normal periods and even took a home pregnancy test just to shut me up which turned out negative but I am a worry wart.
What do you guys think am I just be stupid and need to stop worrying about her being pregnant?
Also please don't flame me I am just a nervious person who always fears the worst with everything
2006-09-19 10:20:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Yes, you're just nervous. There isn't no way that woman could be pregnant. 1st of all, she's 41 and it's harder for older women to get pregnant, 2nd, her tubes are tied, 3rd, she has her period regularly, and 4th, she took a pregnancy test. Take a breath and chill! You're fine!!
2006-09-19 10:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by amanda725_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all... she is't pregnant... Have you told the wife what happened? I believe your worry may be more that she will find out what happened and you two will break up over it. However, if the lady isn't pregnant then its only your word against hers.
Psychology 101..... young man tell your wife what happened and the guilt and worry will go away... BUT... your wife may leave also.... your choice .
Be a real man and deal with whats really bothering you... take responsibility for your own actions
2006-09-19 10:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by lisa n florida 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 13:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by omparsad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a worry wart. Others might call that guilt. But now that you know that she's not pregnant, terminate the relationship that you have with this old friend.
2006-09-19 10:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say quit worrying. Start worrying only if you hear otherwise. From the sounds of it you are off the hook. Is it worrying or regrets you are suffering from? That is something for you to think about.
2006-09-19 10:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by The_know_it_all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chance of her being pregnant (assuming the information given is correct) is 94,635,289 to 1. If you paranoid and think yourself to be that one, then request she go to the hospital to get checked. If you realize that you are most definately NOT that one, then I bid you good day.
2006-09-19 10:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've done all you can do. Concern is good, but at this point there's nothing you can do. Especially if she's not worried, since she is the one that would be having the baby.
2006-09-19 10:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have answered your own question, you worry way too much. In future you might consider the results of your actions before you take part in extramarital sex.
2006-09-19 10:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest you find something worth worrying about.
2006-09-19 10:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you feel guilty about the whole situationa dn should let your wife know what happened while you were apart
2006-09-19 10:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋