2006-09-19 10:18:44 · 14 answers · asked by mw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex did the same. I think it may have been a way to secure that he wouldn't be without a back up plan, so to speak. And when it did fall apart with his lady I found I really didn't want to be part of his back up - and was pretty much repelled by him from then on. You might sense that too about your situation. It might be kind of fun being his secret and getting over on his present lady but you do know he would do it to you, if he does it with you. He's a bit of a loser. I don't think too many women would want a man like that- I learned I certainly didn't. (and don't take to heart some of these really, really rude replies you're getting here. You should get out of the situation but people don't have to be jerks - Get a grip folks!.)
2006-09-19 10:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by social bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How blind can people really be? He is cheating on his girlfriend of 3 years and you want to be with him? You think it's ok because it is with you? You think he wouldn't cheat on you? And what are you doing sleeping with someone you know has a boyfriend? Do you think it is ok because you had him first? IT IS NOT!!!! He is your EX and that is that. He obviously chose the girl with more morals over you! You made yourself available for nothing more than a piece of a$$, and that is what you are. I hope you get what you have coming too you, he isn't going to leave her.
2006-09-19 10:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you allow him to. As long as you allow him to continue to have sex with you then he is going to do that. But, don't bank on him leaving his girlfriend for you. Yo have to think about it, he's been with her for three years now and having sex with you on the side. He's not leaving her, he's just out to get what he can get and that's all. If he wanted to be with you in a relationship he would have left his girlfriend a long time ago. Besides, why would you want to be with him, he's just going to do you the same way he's doing his current girlfriend. That's like begging for pain and heartache! Wise up, don't be used! go to my sebsite, i created it for women and their realtionships, I'm sure something on there can help you. the address is below
2006-09-19 10:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex of over 4 years repeatedly contacts me asking to "have an affair" even though he's living with another woman. He moved her here from another state, so he probably feels too guilty to just dump her. Your ex probably feels guilty, too. Have you come right out and asked him to get back together? If not, you should (if you really want to be with him) It also depends on why you broke up in the first place. I don't want to get back with my ex, so I've always told him no when he asks to sleep with me. Whatever you do, don't tell his GF that you slept with him. That would be just too cruel. You need to work it out with him, and leave her out of it.
2006-09-19 10:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwalker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because he can have his cake and eat it too. He doesn't need to be with you to get what he wants. You are giving it too him. And well, he's gonna cheat on you if you are ever with him. He's been doing it to you anyways. Get out of it. He knows he has you and can do whatever he wants and get away with it. Respect yourself and respect the girl he is with. If you were with someone you wouldn't want a girl to do that to do. What comes around goes around.
2006-09-19 10:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he seems to get to have his cake and eat it too... Why would you want to be the other woman at all? If he cheats on her with you, don't you think he would just cheat on you with someone else?
2006-09-19 10:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Leslie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously is much better in bed than you and he's quite content with his lifestyle with her, whereas he was not with you. You may think that you're now screwing over the girlfriend who he no doubt left you for but in reality he's making out by being able to get laid twice as much as either of you two.
Losers..all three of you.
2006-09-19 10:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GURL COME ON TAKE A HINT I KNOW YOU AINT DAT STUPID!!! if hes cheated on you dat many times let dat ***** go....he obviously dont like you and if he do then hes jst confused and im sure you gota beta things to do then worrin about him....you could hava man dat loves and respects you by now....so do yourself a favor and let him go....and if you two are really meant to be than things will work themselves out all on their own....but dont run afta him...let him be da man and do dat....cuz you aint no bois play toy sweet~heart!:)
2006-09-19 10:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by lilnaychulita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple ... the sex.
He doesn't want anything more from you then that.
If he wanted more than he would have left his current girlfriend and would get back together with you.
But you already knew the answer to this .. didn't you?
2006-09-19 10:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by bluesie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is using u big time...to him ure just another pussy he can stick it into...your an "exercise and practice object...i bet he practices it on u then goes to his gf and gives it to her but he also gives her something more which is love...how can u let a man do this to u? have u got no self respect??
2006-09-19 10:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋