Can you lose your virginity if your boyfriend "fingers" you? But you don't have sex, but you're sore after messing around anyway?
2006-09-19 09:53:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Technically, no. He didn't penetrate your vagina with his penis. But, if you are trying to follow the way Christ wants you to live, you won't behave this way with any boy/man again until you are married. By engaging in this kind of behavior you are letting yourself, and him, be tempted to "go all the way." Pray about it. Ask God what He wants you to do. He loves you and wants only the best for you. God bless!
2006-09-19 09:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're sore, his technique needs work. However, that's besides the point. You are "technically" still a virgin but I don't know how God would feel about that because it's technically sex out of wedlock.
2006-09-19 09:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by Shopgirl9337 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tricky question. Some will say any penetration counts, others will say if your hymen was broke (which will cause a little blood spotting) it's hard to answer. I would say virginity means not having sex, so no? I really dunno who to answer but I would say if you really care about you and your b/f do not rush into anything, believe me, it may not last that much longer if you do go all the way. Make wise decisions and do not disrespect yourself.
2006-09-19 09:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by sammyw1024 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can lose your virginity while riding on a horse!! its all about the hymen. As for being in sin.....nah, its normal, don't worry about it, ok? There are worse things happening in the world right now. :)
2006-09-19 10:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by scooby doo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That counts as having sex. For example, if the neighborhood child molestor did that to your six year old sister, the police could put him away.
2006-09-19 10:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can lose your virginity in that way. You are fooling yourself to not consider penetration in that way sex.
2006-09-19 09:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by kingstubborn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont be a silly willy...real sex doesnt count towards religion until age 18.
Enjoy everything you do now before you get the guilt trips.
2006-09-19 10:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age old question: where does sex start and fool-in around end. Bill Clinton said oral sex was not sex. I think if anybody has an orgasm it is sex.
2006-09-19 10:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ned 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol "tottaly kick him in his ****?" LOL? if someone were to finger someone else it was obviously consensual agreed sexual contact. as he/she said, it was obviously agreed...you would have to let someone get that close. I've done alot of stuff, im starting not to care about my sins. I wish i did though. If im going too hell, thats god's choice. i hope i dont but obviously im gonna have to accept it.
2006-09-19 09:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider that losing one's virginity.
2006-09-19 09:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by BABY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋