i like this boy and ive nown him for about a year and i wanna ask him out and im not sure how and is he says no how do i handle the rejection???
2006-09-19 09:25:16 · 19 answers · asked by Chuckles. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep your interaction with him as low stress and happy as possible. Think about what you would do if some boy came up and asked you out on a date.......but it seemed that he was nervous and had never done this kind of thing before. Would you go out with him if he seemed a little desperate? What would you find attractive for someone to do when asking you out? No matter what.....don't panic and ALWAYS behave as if he would be getting the better end of the deal on a date with YOU.
Confidence is attractive. Good luck.
2006-09-19 09:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Shadowstorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have to deal with this all the time. Glad to see you're willing to take that risk, there are lots of questions posted saying "how do I get him to ask me out....".
So, just ask him. Be specific, like "would you like to go see a movie with me Friday night" rather than just "would you like to go out with me". That way he has a way out if he really doesn't want to go out with you, which answers the last part, about rejection. If he's at all sensitive, then he'll let you down easy if he must say no.
Good luck!
2006-09-19 16:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and ask him how he feels about u?? I have been best friends with this boy since we were born were now 21 and 22 I'm about to get married and he just now got the courage to tell me he wants to be with me and likes me. Well its way to late for that and I feel bad. So yes do it and don't wait or one day ull wake up and it will be to late. If he says no then oh well u can still be friends with him u just know to try and change ur feelings for him. Good luck!
2006-09-19 16:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you and a couple of your girlfriends are going to a movie [or whatever], and ask if he'd like to join you. If he says yes, exchange phone numbers so you can give him all the details. Then call him the night before, and tell him they all canceled, but you'd still like to go, if he would?
2006-09-19 16:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go right ahead and ask him out. and if he rejects you then move on to someone else but if you cant then pretend. just pretend to like another guy and flirt but make sure he is freaking hot! or cute at least.
2006-09-19 16:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by cinderellaprincess_01_4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally and don't burn the bridge with him for he might cross over it one day in the future and let him know he can do that if he decides to.
When women leave my life I always leave the bridge intact unless they were total whack jobs.
2006-09-19 16:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by b4_999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up hey you wanna hang-out maybe catch a movie,if he says no just say OK talk to you latter.
2006-09-19 16:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing ventured=nothing gained,
if you don't you may live with the question of what if I had asked him out?
If he says 'no' then you can move on, if he says 'yes' then Great!
2006-09-19 16:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL JUST TELL HIM THAT YOU LIKE HIM AND YOUD LIKE TO GO OUT WITH HIM IF HE SAYS NO THEN BE STRONG AND UMM FIND ANOTHER GUY TO ASK THERES LOTS OF THEM OUT THERE
2006-09-19 16:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by mrs.sl33py 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the man's delima!
Ask him as simply and confidently as possible and deal with the rejection as a learning process.
2006-09-19 16:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by adphllps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋