If your boyfriend nags you and you're tired of him, would you leave him?
2006-09-19 09:22:05 · 32 answers · asked by spicy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
2006-09-19 09:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Alaska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's nagging in a constructive way. Then agree a jokey responce everytime he starts nagging in the future. When he learns that he does not get an angry response from you he should eventually get the message that nagging will not work. There again if you're been a pain in the bum maybe he has a point and you are bringing the nagging on yourself - don't always assume he is to blame!!!!
2006-09-19 09:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by Fred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how long you've been together...how much of yourself and your time have you vested into the relationship? is he just having the male version of pms? it happens! trust me! and i'm wondering if you're tired of 'him' or the nagging...would you miss him? are there any good times to be had anymore? are you thinking he may leave you so it's better to leave than be left? these are the questions i'd be asking myself before doing something so drastic....what's really going on with him? how is he acting in other areas of his life? are his finances a mess? his job? what about how he intereacts with everyone else? you could take more of a caring attitude and end up being his hero for actually looking deeper than the surface....maybe he's hurting inside and somehow doesn't know how to express it to you? how long you've been together really is a factor here....i wouldn't jump out of the relationship until i was SURE that's what i want.
2006-09-19 09:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by DaynaLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends. How much do you love him and is this something you want to spend your life dealing with? I would suggest you let him know that you did pretty well handling your life before him and his nagging and will no doubt handle it well but much more enjoyably without his nagging, with or without him. Let him know he supposedly picked you for a girlfriend cause he likes you. Nagging is unacceptable.
2006-09-19 09:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your situation before, so i know exactly how you feel. take some time to think about it before you do anything you might regret. is the nagging that bad that you want to throw away an otherwise perfect relationship? did you try talking to him about it? things aren't always going to be great in a relationship, but sometimes all it takes is a little communication and understanding to fix things up.
2006-09-19 09:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lana L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him if you want to leave him. Are you in a relationship that you dont want to be in? But your only in it because you work at the same place or you have a dog together or somehting is holding it together besides love? If this is the case than you should get out of the relationship.
And dont listen to midnight wolf, hes a virgin.
2006-09-19 09:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by twinspick22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely yes. You have to be fair and true with him and yourself, so why stay with someone thta doesn't make you happy anymore? And if you're afraid of hurting him, just know that there are plenty of other people out there for BOTH of you, so everything will eventually work out for the better.
2006-09-19 09:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by laceo1093 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For his sake, yes. Give him a chance to find someone new to nag. If the situation were reversed, wouldn't you want to be free to find someone who isn't tired of you?
2006-09-19 09:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by rosecitylady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i wouldn't advice you to up and leave your boyfriend over just that alone. First off, you should bring to attention how he is making you feel and where you stand on it. Don't just deal with it because if you just settle for this behavior and it bothers you then you are only going to make yourself miserable and you don't need that. Why don't you go to my website. I have so many topics posted on this subject, it could really help you out. It was created for women and their relationships. the address is
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2006-09-19 09:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Boyfriends are disposable when you're young and non commital. That's what dating is all about, to find someone who compliments your personality and you can enjoy being around. If you haven't found that in someone, you move on.
2006-09-19 09:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. The point of dating is to decide whether you're compatible for the long run and if you're tired of him, what's the point of continuing to date?
2006-09-19 09:24:51 · answer #11 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋