I WOULD ONLY REALLY LIKE TO HEAR FROM WHITE MALES
I want to start dating white men, but I do find the ones I meet just a bit timid. I do think more black women are open minded than the early 90's, and would like to date outside of their race.
2006-09-19 09:20:29 · 15 answers · asked by just_wondering 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I must admit that my first assumption when meeting a black woman is that she is not attracted -- no matter how attractive I find her. So in my case, you would have to make the first move or at least make it pretty obvious that you would like to date.
2006-09-19 09:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Celt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually I do think you're correct. White men are intimidated by black women. The reason being that it's not seen very often, and also black women very often, and openly reveal their opinion that they don't find white men attractive.
I wouldn't notice that a black women was attracted to me at all, because I'm just assuming that she's not. There would have to be a huge paradigm shift in the white guys way of thinking.
It think that you'll have to be assertive and a little bit more revealing in your attraction, so as to knock down the paradigm of indifference that the white guy assumes.
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2006-09-19 09:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by loveguru 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I often feel that Black women wouldn't date a white man, not because they don't find them attractive, but because they feel it is unacceptable to date a white man.
I live in the UK and never dated a Black British woman. I did have a relationship with a Nigerian woman, so I know that at least some Black women are attracted to white men.
2006-09-19 09:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bob J 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound racist or anything close to that, but I have noticed that black men are a lot more outgoing and louder than most white guys. So its not that we are timid, its just you might be comparing us to a black guy. We still think black women are beautiful, but the way we pursue you and flirt with you is totally different than the way most black guys do.
2006-09-19 09:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by QuillMaster 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen I'm a white man and I've dated every race at one time or the other.I am not intimidated by women.Treat women well and hopefully they will treat you the same if not find one that will but race should not play into it.If you want to date a white man then just be yourself and you will find the right one for you.
2006-09-19 09:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by ga44male 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Does white men feel that black women doesn't find them attractive? "
Well, I can't speak for anyone but myself, but that certainly hasn't been my experience.
I've been employed for several years in a diverse workplace; about 50% male/female and about 40 percent African-American (sorry-- I can't say "black" anymore) while the age spectrum ranges from early 20's to close to retirement.
It's just a little awkward sometimes. When your girlfriend talks about her "nappy hair" and you have to get on the internet and do a google-search to find out what "nappy hair" even is, it's a minor problem.
Not a big deal, just a little communication is needed.
2006-09-19 11:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Open your horizons to everyone; it instantly makes you more approachable and easy to be with.
And to answer your question, I think many white men find black women attractive.
The majority of black women have physical features that white women don't, and people are naturally attracted to things that are foreign or exotic to them.
2006-09-19 09:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Black women are strong and more masculine than white girls so white guys probably do feel intimidated by them. I date white guys and one told me he was afraid to be with me because I'd been with a black guy. If you don't get it, he figured he wouldn't 'add' up to a black guy. I get white guys hitting me and I talk to them like normal people so I guess it is easy and they don't get intimidated.
2006-09-19 09:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure some do and some don't. what else can I say other than I don't know of any generality's that are true. I've dated people of other races. No problem there.
2006-09-19 09:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl get out their and do some hunting and a bit of flirting to get your answer OK. anyway if i was a lot younger and not married i would look you up. well good Luke in man hunting
2006-09-19 09:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋