everytime i start liking a guy, the guy ends up asking another girl out, ok in my class, i met this guy, he's gorgeous and was very sweet and flirty to me, we clicked....and then today this girl next to me said, oh my god this guy just asked me out...and they don't even know eachother that well!! they exchanged phone numbers...and this kind of sh** has happened to me before...what's wrong with me?. .i mean i'm not ugly and i'm nice i just don't get it!.
2006-09-19 09:16:25 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Meow♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to start taking control of your life, and dont look at this as you just missed out on another guy, cause it might of been a heart break if you two got together so look at it as a way out and your heart is still good. You need to start asking the guy out if you two clicked than ask the guy out make the move, most girls are doing that now a days. Maybe this guy just asked this girl out to make you jealous most guys do that, if he sees its making you mad he thinks that hes got you in the plam of his hand, dont let him think this! You got to find a guy who clicks with you and make a move show him that your not messing around waiting on him, show him you can get a boy and your not in his palm of his hand and that your taking control. As soon as he sees this he will be wrapped around your finger, and crying over how stuipid he was not to make the first move.
2006-09-19 09:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Stay confident, because guys like this a lot and do not be too male friendly. Make them work for it. God created guys to meet challenges, which is why they play sports and die for them. Well if the football field was only 5 feet from goal post to goal post, would it be fun? NO, so when a guy knows that each day he talks to you that you will say hi or hi every time he walks in, there is no challenge. Do not worry, this tends to change as you get older, but at a young age we as individuals tend to be more into emotional games and desiring more of what we can not have, hence your desire.
2006-09-19 09:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by mothercow81 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Realize that u do not need a man to survive get that self esteem up and before u know it they will be wondering why it is always u that gets asked out first. sounds like this guy was a player anyway if he was truely interested in u and getting to know u she would not have his number at all .
2006-09-19 09:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by ~~*Brownie*~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy because its just destiny saving u for an even better guy for u. There is always that one person for everyone and I promise u will find a man. Just don't be to eager to get all the wrong ones first.
2006-09-19 09:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is a blessing in disguise. If this guy can hit on you then the next hit on another girl, then it is not you, it's him. He is not the one for you. Think about it, what if you started dating him and then he cheats. He is not sure of what HE wants so let him go on because he is only making room for "Mr. Right" to come in and sweep you off of your feet. You don't want someone who is not going to treasure you, you want someone who is going to treat you like the queen you are and believe me sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs to get to the prince.
2006-09-19 09:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F*ck it. Men are overated. Find a hobby, focus more on school, party, enjoy life and that's all you need. U don't need a man. It would be nice but u were born in this world alone and u'll most likely die alone. So accept who u are and not a soul can bring u down.
2006-09-19 09:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by LaToya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see from ur pic that you are SOOOO not ugly. I wish i could fly in tonight just to show you how pretty your face makes the flower in your hair even more attractive and appealing.
We all went down this road many times and it stinks. Maybe they wont click at all. You should meet more guys. Hang in there.
2006-09-19 09:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe take things into your hands. If you start to like someone, ask him out. Don't wait for him to make the first move. If you do, then you won't always be happy with the results, as you have discovered.
2006-09-19 09:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it sounds like you are chosing the "Shallow Hal's" or what you are experancing is young men and dating.
Dating is the time you learn about the person you are with, it is not a commitment, it is a learning time.
So either chose a BF that is not looking to date and discover or ...
2006-09-19 09:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes girls who make friends with guys easily are actually seen as "one of the guys" and there is no mystery...they see you as one of "them." Be a little illusive, a little sultry (not slutty). In the end, don't worry about it so much. Be yourself, relax and one of these days soon, a guy will come along and see you for you and love you for it.
2006-09-19 09:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋