I've found my personality match, but I don't find her physically attractive. Should I date her?

Answer 1

When I met my wife I got picture of her before I met her in person (we met on yahoo). I was very hesitant because I did not think she was all that attractive. (She was not hideous just no spark). When I saw her in person? Boom. If you have not met this women face to face yet do not make any judgements just take a chance with her. If her looks become a turn off then be polite and tell her that your not interested in a relationship. You might be surprised how your opinion will change when you see the real person she is and not the flesh you are looking at.

Answer 2

The physical appearance is not the most important thing, but lets be honest you have to be able to look at the person and have a little attraction to them physically. Try going out on a date or two and maybe you'll realize you are physically attracted to them. After a few dates if you aren't physically attracted to them then I think it would be best if you stayed friends. If you decide to remain friends don't tell her it's because you're not physically attracted to them that's a no no

Answer 3

I wouldn't do it! It is an integral component of which is neccessary for a long term relationship. I don't believe it will lead either of you down any kind of healthy road.

There is one qualifier though. If you don't put a great deal of weight into the attraction factor, then my previous statement is null/void. For me, I have to be physically attracted and find her personality a challenging / suprisingly / refreshing match. I have found that a relationship never works out if I don't feel as though she is attractive enough to satisfy my physical desire.

I have found that I'm just not able to put my whole heart into the relationship if the physical attraction isn't there.

Hope that helps...good luck!
glenn
"pi, it makes the world go 'round"

Answer 4

I would say yes, sometimes what attracts us initially doesn't attract us later on down the road and the same goes for what we don't find attractive. Give her a chance but let's be honest: as much as physical looks aren't everything and eventually fade, they ARE important to us, just some people more than others.

Answer 5

Yes! give each other a chance to get to know each other. Since she is your personality match, then you must be hers too. That in itself is a nice start. You just might end up being good friends! Life is short, enjoy it and all the many blessings that come your way and she sounds like a blessing.

Answer 6

Sometimes the beauty will grow on you. If she matches you in every other sense, I would give her a shot. 60 years from now, you don't have your looks anyway, but you can still find things to talk about and be great companions with each other.

Answer 7

Only you can answer that question for yourself. Physical attraction is not everything. What about her personality, values, sense of humor ect? How does she make you feel?

Answer 8

if there are a lot of things to share and she is interesting why not?
every girl can become physically attractive with some make up..

Answer 9

I think you should. If she is compatable mentally, the rest will follow. I know I would much rather be with someone that is my equal mentally but maybe not the best looking than someone that is the most attractive but stupid. You can fix your hair, you can fix your make up, but you can't fix stupid.

Answer 10

Of course if you found her attractive her in side her out side don't matter, it matters what is in her heart, don't be afraid just because she is not physically attractive.