2006-09-19 09:10:04 · 13 answers · asked by willokta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HMMMMMMM I would have to say that if he loves porn BUT wont have sex with you SOMETHING is totally wrong with that picture!!!! ALL guys would much prefer to have real sex than just to watch porn! Talk to him and tell him how u feel. Try to find out what the problem is! Have u tried watching it with him? I know I know- its not your thing! Just an idea! Something is totally not right with that! Dig a little deeper and find out what the scoop is! Maybe he just sees you as his girlfriend and not as a sex toy? I knowe after I had my son my hubby told me one night that it took him awhile to see me as a sex toy for awhile because I was now the mother of his child- he now saw me in a more innocent light than ever before. SO MAYBE he sees u as above doing all of this for some reason? Good luck
2006-09-19 09:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off any real mature woman understands that a man will be a man and some of the things that they do are what mostly every man does an if he was watching porn before he met you and you started dating him still then you just need to grow up and get over it because if you truly love this person than you will understand that it is not right to try and change someone because you don't agree with what they were doing even when they were doing it before they meet you.
2006-09-19 16:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by michelle b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do you love your bf for who he is?
If so, why are you trying to change him?
So he watches porn. In my experience, 7 out of every 10 guys watch porn. So this is an issue that you'll probably encounter again.
It's simple, he likes porn...that's a part of WHO HE IS. If you want to be with him, you'll just have to accept him for who he is, flaws and all. If you can't accept that part of him, then it's time to move on because no man is going to change who he is for a woman.
2006-09-19 16:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by show83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't need to give it up. It's your problem. As long as he gives you attention but just happens to like watching porn then it is obvious you are insecure.
2006-09-21 18:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by deusdenton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him to stop personally i wouldn't see a problem if my boyfriend liked watching porn... I mean I would watch it with him, at least he's not cheating on you...
2006-09-19 16:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by cremedelacreme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't. Let it go. Unless it causes some serious problems like he gets violent or he doesn't want to have sex with u. If not LET IT GO.
2006-09-19 16:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by LaToya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys tire of porn eventually---watch it with him--offer to masterbate together--its very sexy and cood be a big turn on!
2006-09-19 16:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by eddie a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he give it up for you...Who are you to tell him to give up anything your just his girlfriend not his owner..If you don't like it find another boyfriend!
2006-09-19 16:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by djjjc11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOPS sorry sweetie it's BYE-BYE for you. If he can't respect you and give it up then my sdvice to you is GIVE HIM UP and find you a REAL MAN!! OKAY?
2006-09-19 16:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Little Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to save it for you if you are willing other wise masturbation is very healthy thing for guys to do
2006-09-19 16:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by toobdoob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋