I am 13 years old and other kids at school make fun of me cause I haven't had a bf or kissed a guy ever in my life.
Why is that??????????
2006-09-19 09:02:53 · 37 answers · asked by ~Blue Eyes~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In today's society, they all probably have had 5 or 6 sex partners by now.
2006-09-19 09:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Biskit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because in order to feel good about themselves and justify their own actions they have to make you feel inferior and make fun of you. If you ever read bio's of some of the most successful people in this world, more than a few will say how they were ridiculed growing up in school, or thought ugly, etc. I know it's difficult (I experienced some myself for being thin, mixed race, smart and an athlete, wearing glasses, not talking to girls nevermind having a gf or kissing), but focus on doing well in school and your success in life will be enough to silence the critics later on in life so that you will have the last laugh.
2006-09-19 09:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what a "bf" is but don't worry about never being kissed. What's the rush? Kissing is over-rated and so is sex. It's just a status thing for competitive fools who have nothing better to do with their lives. Be patient and enjoy your youth. You'll be kissed and bf'ed and every other thing you'll ever want done to you when the time is right. Let nature take its course and use good judgement instead of being influenced by conformists.
2006-09-19 09:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by lidlolady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer is because kids are sometimes mean-spirited. Don't you worry about that, you will have plenty of time for having boyfriends and kissing. Don't let the others pressure you into anything you don't want or may not be ready for. Always do what YOU think is right, no matter what others say. If they laugh at you, then they are not true friends.
2006-09-19 09:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by sportygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 10 year old girl and my bff has kissed a guy before , but i have not she makes fun of me for that but i say "OMG really"
For the friend part I would tell you is that do not be afraid to go and meet new friends out inthe world.Do not be scared to show the real you.
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2006-09-19 09:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Joni M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I am 16 and have never been kissed. I'd rather have my first kiss..be really special..rather than to just follow the crowd..and it be with someone..I don't really love. People like that are immature and have nothing better to do with their time than make fun of others. Don't worry about it...if anything they should be jealous of you. A kiss should be special <3
2006-09-19 09:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just 13, there is no hurry . take your time and the heck with the other people .you are fine . make a good reputation for yourself not a bad one. having a b/f and kissing at 13 is not the most important thing , school and having a good reputation is, Be patient and all good things will find you,
2006-09-19 09:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why they would make fun of you but I would just make a joke out of it and lauph. If they think it doesnt bother you then it wont be fun to pick on you anymore. You should never just get a boyfriend or kiss someone because thats what other people want you to do you should only do it if its what you want to do. Just lauph it off and do whatever makes you happy.
2006-09-19 09:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids are cruel! There is nothing wrong with being 13 and never been kissed! Someday this is something you can be proud of, while all those other sluts in your school feel shame!
2006-09-19 09:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by crandle55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they may have done this stuff and had a bad experience and are taking it out on you because they are jealous. Ignore them or laugh along with them and they won't know what to do. Or, you COULD lie to them and say something like " my boyfriend goes toanother school and we went to the movies last weekend and are supposed to do it again in 2 weeks. Godd luck to ya! GaryT
2006-09-19 09:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please talk to your mother or other adult. These girls make fun of you because they are immature and unkind and they haven't been taught better behavior by their parents. You have plenty of time for boys. Now is the time to study, get involved in school and church activities and make some better friends! Cut this out. In a few years, you will understand.
2006-09-19 09:06:15 · answer #11 · answered by Isabella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋