If your boyfriend tells you not to get used to him coming everytime you call or pout because he thinks he's being taken advantaged of, what exactly is he saying?
2006-09-19 08:40:29 · 6 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he has alot of nerves to say that considering he has caused alot of the insecurities coming from me in our relationship because of some things he has done and said... He wants the insecurity because of his low self-esteem, but doesn't want to deal with the consequences of his girls insecurities.
2006-09-19 08:51:15 · update #1
He's trying to tell you that dont count on him rushing to your rescue every single time u call him and pout and beg him to come over. He is trying to say he has a life too and values his time doing other things as well. He is trying to tell you not to be so needy and depend on him so much! He wants u to stand on your own two feet and not bother him each and everytime u r feeling low or want him with you.
2006-09-19 08:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend has problems. He is pretty much in a shell of his. most boys are like that. I have read that in men are from mars and women are from venus. the thing is you need to leave him alone when he is in his shell. But you do need to show him you love him and respect him.
I myself am afraid of being taken advantage of. I have met a old man who's life was messed up and everything was token advantaged from him. He is a wreck. This is what your boyfriend meant. he feels he couldn't trust anyone. Show that you can, by loving him and respecting him. You can talk to other people.
2006-09-19 15:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by mystic_lonewolf22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not going to be your slave. He is not going to be known as the "whipped" b/f. It may also be saying that he is not going to stay around if you do not respect him like he respects you. But you should also consider...do you go to hi evertime he calls or pouts? If so, he should consider returning the favor every once in a while.
2006-09-19 15:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Double D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting childish, and give him a bit of space.
2006-09-19 15:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably just using u every bf i had that said that always used me don't get to comfortable
2006-09-19 15:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by beckybarmey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is telling you to stop the manipulative behaviour or you will lose him
2006-09-19 15:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋