I have this guy friend that asked me out...we tried goin out b4 but i broke up w/ him bcuz i didnt like him like that...now he wants 2 go out w/ me again but i dont think i like him like that. last time we went out it ruined our friendship and we just started 2 patch it up...i dont no wut i should say......i no ii should follow my heart but im so confused..plz give some real advice not follo ur heart. ty
2006-09-19 08:39:03 · 4 answers · asked by Shelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't like him like that then there is no reason why you should start dating again, it would only lead him on and in the end he would end up getting hurt and probably ruin your friendship forever. Tell him you just want to concentrate on being friends as that is what you value, His friendship
2006-09-19 08:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by loopytoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already answered your very own question darlin! You tried once to make it with him as more than friends and u just didnt feel that way about him. You CANT make yourself love someone- you CANT make yourself desire someone! Its all in your heart! I know i r terrified u will lose your friend if u dont try atleast-but you DID try and for awhile u lost your friendship with him. Explain to him exactly how u feel. Let him know u r not ready for anything like that at all. Tell him how much u value your friendship with him and never want to live life without him in it. Good luck to u You cannot force yourself to be attracted to him and its unfair if he uses your friendship to get u to date him!
2006-09-19 16:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you didn't like him, you might hurt him now. he should know how this is effecting you before he tried to patch things up. just tell him you aren't ready to think of him like that.
2006-09-19 15:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by dudekunle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that....
2006-09-19 15:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋