There is this guy which i like!He is a year younger than me (i am 17 he is 16)but i really like him!I don't know if it's right to like him and if i can take a risk with someone like him!For example i have had long-term relationships before but he hasn't..etc!Should i try to have a relationship with him or should we just stay friends...?
Thanks for answering my question...
2006-09-19 08:37:17 · 24 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason why he hasnt had a long time relationship is because he hasnt met the right one. I for one have never had a relationship longer than three months and the guy i am with now had relationships that lasted years we have now been together for three years and are growing closer. All i needed was someone worth holding on to and show me love. Thats all hes waiting for too. But you two are still young yet, and getting with someone for a long term not always ends up the way you want. But i know some people who started dating early as yous and end up getting married. You prob not looking into that serious yet but i would start making dates with him. See if things could work out for you two. Dont push it into somthing that you would like and just let it take its course, and if things dont work out dont loose your friendship over it. Stay friends it was just not meant to be. But at least you tryed and will not have the question on your mind "only if i ask him out, could he be the one?" Better to know than not to have ever known. So yes make the move and see where it goes from there, things could work out better than you could even imagine. Good luck. and remember if things dont, it was meant to be, and its just one more relationship closer to the one your meant to be with.
2006-09-19 08:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you have described seems to be an issue. The fact that he is a year younger than you and he has not had a long term relationship previously shouldn't stop you. If you are interested in him you should go out and see what happens. Who knows maybe you will find you are both happy and stay together for a long term relationship. If not at least you will have tried and know.
2006-09-19 15:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys at 16 have not had a long term relationship yet. Him being 16 and you being 17 means NOTHING. You are only one year apart. Is there anything else that you aren't saying about taking a risk with "someone like him"? That statement makes it sound like you think your better than him, whats up with that if you like this guy? What is the "ect" about? If you want the relationship, go for it, but watch statements like that, if he sees it, he will want to know what you meant by it too.
2006-09-19 15:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like him go for it, just because he hasn't had a long term relationship doesn't mean anything. Maybe he just hasn't met the right girl. If the relationship thing doesn't work out go back to being just friends.
2006-09-19 15:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 14 years older. I am 36. When you are older it is not bad to have a gap that big. When you are 17, one year makes a big difference. Guys tend to mature a little slower than girls.
I am leaning to the side of telling you it is OK though. You have to make that judgment for yourself. And I tell you, taking a risk is scary, but the benefits can really be rewarding when you are right.
2006-09-19 15:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If he likes you and you like him, what's the problem? I think you are probably thinking about what your friends will say when they see you with a younger guy, but you know what, what matters is between you two. Not the rest of the world
2006-09-19 15:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will have to try or you will never know, I'm dating some one 4 years older then me , I'm a guy and it is the best relationship I have ever been in
2006-09-19 15:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by ben b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not important unless there is more than 4 or 5 years involved. Go for it
2006-09-19 15:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by muchacha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should give it a try, does not matter that you had long relationships and he didn't,either way both of you are single.you say should i take a risk?what if hes saying that about you?what makes you better, you not with someone for a reason and hes not with someone for a reason.
2006-09-19 15:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have been in your long term relationship since middle school. Give him a chance. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2006-09-19 17:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Dorkboy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋