I have a Girlfriend, and another girl like me, and i like them both what is a good way to handle this situation
2006-09-19 08:22:09 · 19 answers · asked by Al w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to make a decision on who you want to be with the most. You are already dating one girl and it would be really wrong to dump her to be with the other girl. Is the one your with now really like you? If so you have already started a relationship with her a know kinda how its going to work out. What if you dump her and go out with the other girl and it don't work out? Then the one your with now might not take you back or even be with someone else. Its truly up to you but don't play them both. That will only lead to losing both of them. Best of luck my friend!! God Bless!!
2006-09-19 08:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by jesus_freak_sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no avoiding the hurt. If you pick one or the other, one of them will be hurt in some way. If you do nothing, they will both find someone else, and you will be hurt. My advice to you is to choose wisely for the right reasons.
Since you say you already have a girlfriend, you shouldn't even be thinking of being with another unless your current girlfriend is bad in some way.
2006-09-19 15:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like is one thing and love is another. Do you love your girlfriend? If so, then stay away from the girl you like. Some men end up having affairs with girls they only like and end up messing up a long loving lasting relationship for a simply one night stand. Just think about all the hurt you would cause.
2006-09-19 15:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem to be making a habit of being liked by women!!check yourself, and plz ooze a little less charm.
as to the problem at hand. dont lie to either of them. tell them both about the other girl, and your feelings for both. for some time the situation may get awkward and the women may want to compete with each other for you. take your time, and let one of them dump you.
actually, you are in a mess. only a miracle can help you.
all the best.
2006-09-19 15:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by slmanl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you have a girlfriend correct? Then your problem is solved.
This could only be a problem if you have a girlfriend (like you said you did) and like the girl that likes you also. Now that would be a dilemma.
2006-09-19 15:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this something you have to think about. Tell the other girl you are taken. Done. That doesn't mean you have to be an *** about it, just tell her the facts.
If you even have to think twice about this then you're obviously not very committed to the relationship and I dare say not ready for any serious relationship.
Good luck
2006-09-19 15:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tomis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you're screwed...no matter what you are going to hurt someone...best thing I could think of doing is thinking of which would move on faster than the other...or get less hurt....since you dont want to hurt them...if you are in it for yourself...think about who you can see yourself being with longer...and who can benefit from...oh yea...and whos better looking of course...if you can't decide after that...flip a coin...good luck
2006-09-19 15:26:10 · answer #7 · answered by narfanator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you find another girl or you could choose the one you think has the best personality you like in a girl
2006-09-19 15:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by shanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to choose one of them and let the other one hurt. Be nice about it but do not keep both on the hook. That is mean and you need to let one of them know she is not the one you want.
2006-09-19 15:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a girlfriend you shouldnt be liking the other girl. If you do you need to seriously rethink your relationship.
2006-09-19 15:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by youdontknowme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋