I am wanting a threesome with WMW. I think that my husband does too. We have went to a strip club where he has bought me a lap dance which was a real turn on. I don't know how to tell that I want one.
2006-09-19 08:15:57 · 27 answers · asked by dawnangie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he takes you to a strip club, buys you a lap dance, he must be seeing how far you will go! Tell you want it, becase he sound like he already does!
2006-09-19 08:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had two; a MFM and a MMF. I did not like the extra girl, I was not into it. Tell your husband that you want one, he will love it. But do yourself the biggest favor a girl can do for herself, offer to trade him a threesome with another woman if he will treat you to another man.
I loved having the extra man, it was the best thing ever, plus most guys would do anything to get 2 girls so he will agree to it.
I did not have to manipulate my husband into having either threesome but if I knew how great a DP was I would have LOL.
2006-09-19 08:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are two ways: the direct aproach, and the sly aproach.
The direct aproach is where you just say it to him. I suggest over dinner. A full tummy goes a long way to keeping someone from getting too excited.
The sly aproach is where you find a girl you want to be with, then suprise him when he comes home and see just how far he'll take the two of you.
2006-09-20 08:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you both want to then there is not a problem. However, be mindful that you can leave yourself open for hurt feelings and defensive behavior because of jealousy and such. If you choose to do it, I would advise that you not seek out a friend or someone you know. It could be very weird afterward. So be careful.
2006-09-19 08:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Diva Singa LA Wild Style 4 Real 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!! Somethings are best left to the I'magination trust me! Through a hard lesson in life im here to let you know You About to step into another world you don't want to be in. Just try to control your needs of the flesh and use your common sense nothing good is going to come of it but the fleeting moment of pleasure then it will be awkward as all get out LOLL!!
2006-09-19 08:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by blazinblackmale 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You tell him.
BE direct and don;t nibble around the corners.
"Honey, last night at the club was more exciting than I could have imagined. I was wondering if you would be up to enagaing in a threesome?"
2006-09-19 08:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It could seriously damage your marriage. Just leave it the way it is- a fantasy. Instead, if you want to spice some things up with your husband, there are many of other things you could try that involve just the two of you like dressing up/role play, erotic novels, new sex positions, etc.
2006-09-19 08:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's the most erotic feeling to experience but... along with that comes a lot of psychological damage for both man and wife. It took a few years to recoup the trust we had in each other. Not worth it. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone.
yes, thresomes is bad.
2006-09-19 08:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by muchacha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are a great wife... few women embrace there true desires
my wife has treated me to three ways from time to time over the last 12 years .. i will love her for it till the day i die.. gust find a girl you like and bring her home... he won't object..he might think it's a trap but once he knows he can play he will think of you as a goddess
2006-09-19 08:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by ken y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out and say it.. if your husband is like any other man in the universe, he will be more than exstatic.
Keep in mind.. once you do it once and he likes it.. this 3rd might end up stealing your sex from you later on.
2006-09-19 08:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋