if there is a restaurant with alittle bar area or some place which
has a bar - is it ok for a guy to go by himself to try to meet women
do guys ever go alone like this
2006-09-19 08:13:38 · 19 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely! I'm a female who spent this past summer living alone in a different state where I didn't know anyone...and I went out to restaurants and bars alone all the time! You just have to be brave and act confident....I was really self-conscious at first, until I realized that no one thought it was weird besides me!
I see men hanging out at bars, clubs, and restaurants alone all the time, and I don't think it's weird. If you're looking to meet people, you have to put yourself out there, even if it's scary...you can't meet anyone if you don't leave your house. :)
Best of luck! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!
2006-09-19 08:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to the bar alone is not a big deal,
I do it all the time even if its just to have a beer & appetizer.
Dont be afraid man
You just been out of the game too long and youre thinking about it too hard.
Try the Internet too, maybe you can meet a girl on there and have her meet you at the bar. : )
2006-09-19 15:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can if you want, but having a wing man is always easier.
If you want to meet women, bars are NOT the best place to go. Try signing up for co-ed sports teams, taking community ed classes at night on subjects that interest you (cooking, travel, etc) or try volunteering in the community. This way, you get a chance to meet people without looking like a lurker in a bar.
2006-09-19 15:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is safer for guys to go out alone,than it is for women. I would try and go out with a couple finds first and get comfortable and have fun. I do not know if meeting someone in the bar is a great idea.Join a club, group volunteer, go on outings, have someone set you up.Take it slow and do not rush the process. Let yourself heal!
2006-09-19 15:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No bars!
Woman like to drink...but we don't want a drunk!
Borrow a puppy or get a puppy. Find a dog park.
Women Love anything adoreable. The smaller the better! Yes, the dog!!
2006-09-19 15:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking for a one-night-stand, go to a bar. If you're looking to date someone, you need another path. Volunteer somewhere for a cause that shares your values. Join a club. Go to a dating website.
If you meet someone that shares mutual interests with you, you will have a relationship based on something valid. Meeting someone at a bar rarely works out well.
2006-09-19 15:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
XXXXXXXX 90% of the people at a bar are alone, rather they are with a friend or not. No problem hun, go, you'll fit right in the mix.
2006-09-19 15:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's o.k . I go to a lot of places alone; not just bars. The shopping mall is a great place to meet people.
2006-09-19 15:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes alot of guys go out alone,if you go to a bar try to go to a nice one where you can meet a good women.good luck
2006-09-19 15:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think its ok to go alone but the bar isn't a good place to meet women you'd wanna marry anyway..
2006-09-19 15:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋