call the guy i like, but i don't have a good excuse for why i called him in the first place. What is a good reason?
2006-09-19 08:12:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First before you call him when you are around him, flirt, and for sure show off that smile of yours, guys go crazy for smiles. And talk a bit find out what hes into. Than after you two talk face to face give him a call, and ask what hes doing on the weekend and tell him that theres this great movie coming out (or somthing thats going on this weekend) and say that either you will be going with other friends and he could bring some oh his and just hang out. Or if you want it to be a one on one things right away than ask him on a date, either to the movies or just something simple. Now a days girls have to make the first move like it or not, cause if you leave it up to the guy it might take a while cause sometimes that need that extra nudge! Good luck and sure you will have a date with him in no time...by the way before you go call and durning that face to face chat..look your best!! and who know he might be the one call you, even ask him if you could give him your number sometime, and i am sure he will love to take it! than wait for two days if nothing than call him say i dunno if you happen to loose the number (which lots of men do) than mention about doing somthing this weekend.
2006-09-19 08:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I was just sitting here thinking about you and thought I'd give ya a call. Is this a good time or are you busy right now? (If not busy) Great, how are you doing? I was wondering if we could maybe get together sometime soon and maybe see a movie or something? What do you think about that or maybe do something else? ------Start out with this and he will be OK. Chances are that he is as shy or shyer than you are. Good luck to ya!! GaryT
2006-09-19 15:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him...YOu don't need an excuse to call a guy. When he answers tell him who you are and that you were thinking of him; so you called to see what he was up too. Maybe you could suggestion you go out for a soda,coffee or a drink or a bite to eat just to talk. Go for it...
2006-09-19 15:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by TXDUDE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for his opinion on something; for instance, if he is known to have special interest in something (fantasy football, cars, etc.), give him a call and ask him a generic question about it. Use it as an excuse to continue the conversation and before you know it, you might talk for a while.
2006-09-19 15:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need an excuse to call?
There's nothing wrong with calling up to tell him you wanted to chat. It's as simple as that. Where the conversation goes is entirely up to you .. and to him.
2006-09-19 15:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats Brilliant! Your going to call him and lie about why you are calling him flat out. Good way to start a relationshp. I got news for you..guys like woman who are forward.
Call him and ask him out!
Something fun though. Go Carts!
If your asking..You have to go do something GUY LIKE and not girly or romantic..that is is job to create..not yours.
2006-09-19 15:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey how u doing? what's going on? want to have dinner or a drink or hang out and watch TV? what are you doing? Have you ever blah blah blah. Find something you both have in common and take it from there. Just be cool
2006-09-19 15:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by prizelady88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need excuse -- just get the courage to call him.
2006-09-19 15:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Q. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him you like him. Be direct. Men appreciate that sort of thing.
2006-09-19 15:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Luke D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to the same school and are in the same class ask him if he got the home work assignment because you lost yours
2006-09-19 15:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by God Is Love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋