She's 49 years old and acting like a 19 year old tramp.
2006-09-19 08:11:53 · 18 answers · asked by BOOOO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It sounds like Mom isn't really feeling to good about herself, and by acting this way she is getting the attention that she was lacking, or by guys coming onto her, she feels attractive. Somehow, Mom needs to understand that beauty is on the inside, and that by presenting herself in this manner, the attention she is getting isn't positive attention. The guys aren't going to like her for who she is, but what they think they can get (or are getting). You Mom is confused and needs to go to counseling. How you are going to get her there is on you, but I suggest getting help from other family members. Try not to be mean to her about it, your Mom is just messed up right now and needs love and positive attention. The more people harp on her, the more she is going to feel alone and isolated. I don't know how old you are, or if you are able to deal with this, but I wish you luck before something bad happens to your Mom.
2006-09-19 08:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... while it might bother you and while you might wish that your Mother would behave in a more classy way... at her age she probably is aware of the fact that others might consider what she's doing as "trampy"... but she probably doesn't care. You could express how you feel by sitting her down and having a conversation with her... but, ultimately, at 49 years old she'll probably be offended that you're trying to give her a guideline for appropriate behavior. I can understand how that would bother you though.
2006-09-19 08:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. don't offend her by saying she's such a tramp or something -- you should be respecting your mother, she is the woman who brought you to the world.
her image is not what i am concerned about, but i am more concerned about her health. i suggest you talk to her and tell her that you are concerned about her health -- and probably her character also. if you are worried that people would think she sleeps around a lot, let her know about it. tell her that you just don't want people to judge her the wrong way. if she tells you to butt out and leave her alone -- then i guess that's what you should do. but if you are really upset about this, let her know so she will tone it down.
2006-09-19 08:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not okay with what your mom is doing then tell her, she may be going through a phase, I know some moms think their kids are rasied so they can do what they want. Just sit and talk to her and tell her you are afraid for her what she might get or what might happen to her if she continues this. Your gonna have to be like the mom talking to the kid. Good Luck.
2006-09-19 08:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are calling your MOM a tramp. Shame on you. Grow up and stop acting like a brat.
2006-09-19 08:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow!! She is grown and going to do what she wants to do. You can ask her not to do it in front of you because not only does it make you uncomfortable, the way you look at her is changing. I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. Hopefully she will take your feelings into consideration. Good Luck.
2006-09-19 08:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honset with your mother and tell her although she is an adult it makes you feel embrassed that she acting the way that she is doing and you love her and you want her to be happy but at the same time she needs to be respectful towards your feelings and put u first
2006-09-19 08:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boo, I don't know what it means to our country...
But if you are a male,,, go directly, tell her to stop and or you can do somethig..
But if you are a female,,, all you can do is ask her to be discreet or discrmiate...
At that age,, she is at the hottest times of her life,,, and where is the husband... you did not put it her... if the hustband is alive.. tell your father so he will stop her,, but if they are separated... ..give your best chance.
2006-09-19 08:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you???....because you seriously need to grow up ....she is an adult and not answerable to you .....since when did you become her moralistic judge ....she has reared you to be a fine honest upstanding young man with morals ...she deserves your understanding not your judgement ....she taught you her morals ...now how did she do that if she has none as you claim ??
2006-09-19 08:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by pineforestkim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. She's an adult, that means she makes her own choices. You can't control what other people do and nagging them will only hurt your relationship with the person.
2006-09-19 08:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋