Okay, the girl i like's birthday is december 31, so I was wondering if i should just get her 1 big girft, or 3 smaller gifts (christmas, birthday, new years). what would you do if you were in the same situation with the person you're dating?
2006-09-19 08:10:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont get her just one gift. Trust me, people who have thier BD on/near Xmas always feel a little cheated because people have always called one gift thier bd/Xmas present.
2006-09-19 08:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to be remembered on your birthday. I have a December Birthday and my family has always celebrated the occasion separate from Christmas. I appreciate being remembered like anyone does on their special day. I don't care about the gifts but I enjoy the family, the dinner etc ... Everyone deserves to celebrate their birthday as their own special day not affiliated with a holiday. We don't get to pick the time we're born in. I wouldn't buy a gift for New years, I've never heard of that. Good luck.
2006-09-19 08:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with a couple of small gifts (unless you know she wants something that costs a lot, then get her the one big thing). The smaller gifts will say to her that you're not trying to be cheap by getting just one gift for 3 events.
The question to ask yourself when buying is would I give her just this if it was just her birthday? That will help you decide on how much to get.
2006-09-19 08:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by cutest_kittykat_411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife's birthday is on Valentine's day and rule #1 is do not buy her a larger gift to cover both holidays.
You will definitely get more points if you buy her a gift for Christmas and a separate one for her birthday. I've never heard of a New Year's gift...
2006-09-19 08:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her one gift for her birthday and one gift for Christmas. I wouldn't give nor expect a gift for New Years.
2006-09-19 08:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get her a gift for christmas and take her out for her birthday to a fancy place full of laughter and get her a small gift. On new years its party time ;)
2006-09-19 08:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, been there with a child and we always got seperate gifts for her.
Not just little things but what we would have normally gotten had she been born any other time of the year.
Don't be cheap.
2006-09-19 08:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her 3 gifts she would appreciate it for I bet her family only gives her one present and that is not right ! so give her 3 she will love you forever for that one =)
2006-09-19 08:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the "big gift" is
2006-09-19 08:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋