there is this boy at my church he is 16 im 15 the other night i over heard him tell someone that he as gonna take someone down to the bathroom and do wat he do and tell them not to scream to loud ,,and they was like she dont want you, so i turned around and he was like then why she keep looking at me, she looking at me now... he always flirting with me and im not sure if he was talking about me and he stares at me really strange and my mom said the other night he was staring at me and she said she doesnt trust him. Do you think hell try to do something to me? my friend told me he likes me im really afraid hell try to rape me
2006-09-19 08:08:16 · 41 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i go to the bathroom alone and when i go alone he stares at me strangely and its weird
2006-09-19 08:18:47 · update #1
It's very likely he will try something. Do not, ever, be alone with this boy.
2006-09-19 08:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by Xeod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing this information, the best thing you can do is stay away from him. Don't go to a bathroom alone and make sure you're around adults as much as possible. That's #1.
#2, is that you need to go directly to your Pastor/Minister and tell him to talk to the boy's parents. If you do not do this and he actually does rape another girl, YOU ARE PARTIALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR NOT STOPPING HIM!!!!
#3. If you are Catholic, forget #2 and just go tell your parents to talk to his parents. As for the reason for #3, you'll learn why I've said this soon enough.
Be smart, watch your back and take this seriously. Rape is no joke.
2006-09-19 08:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All this going down at church. A church is supposed to be a place where you come to for comfort. You are not supposed to be worried about someone raping you, at church. It seems like he will try to do something to you because, you stated that he looks at you very weird. So my advice for you is don't pay him any attention. Which means don't stare at him, don't even look at him. Keep far away from him. I hoped I helped you.
2006-09-19 08:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by incredible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your mom let the Pastor , reverend, priest, know what is going on. Also have her call the police and let them know. May be they have had problems with him before. In the meantime stay with other people around the church you can trust. This kid sounds like trouble so by all means avoid him. Even if he did not mean you he meant someone and next time that someone may be you. Good luck with this!
2006-09-19 08:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tries anything...go for the eyes. Poke them, rake them and don't stop no matter what. Put your thumbs in his eyes and hold on with his ears.
Be proactive. If your whole family attends church there, have your dad tell him he don't like the way he looks at you and if he touches you he will disappear.
Do not put yourself in the position to be alone around him.
Keep a can of mace on you and make sure you know how to use it.
Hopefully some of these suggestions help.
2006-09-19 08:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do ur best to stay away from him, and when u cant make sure someone u trust is there with u. if u r ever at a moment alone w/ him, get away. although, what parent likes teenage boys when they have a teenage daughter. boys talk crap about girls (like "im gonna bang this chick and to this and this and this" ie CRAP) to eachother all the time. u might have just caught him talkin 'with the guys'. he might just mean that he likes u and that he thinks u like him back.
2006-09-19 08:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are afraid he will rape you you should tell your mom. ad stay away from him. DONT go to the bathroom with him if you do not want to do anything with him. but i really think you shold talk to your mom. maybe change church groups or something. and if he does rape you dont be afraid to tell someone. tell your parents right away because rape is wrong and illegal. it is a BIG deal. dont let anyone tell you it isnt. if someone makes you uncomfortable remove yourself from the situation and get help from someone you trust. maybe tell your friend to tell him to back off. or tell ur dad to chop off his balls... i think that works :)
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-19 08:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid, make sure you are with someone else at all times when he is around and do not go anywhere with him or with his friends.
Also you may want to tell an adult, your parents, a teacher, someone at church, about your concerns. But be aware if you do you may get him in trouble for nothing.
2006-09-19 08:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sure to stay in the buddy system if you go out have a gf stick around you and that way if he does then someone will be there and he'll most likely not do it when there is someone else around k if it continues then get help don't forget to tell your parents about it I know that it might be imbarassing but, for your own safty is what counts...
2006-09-19 08:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by willokta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey stay away from this boy. That sounds like a terrible threat to me and I'm not joking with you.
Never be alone with him anywhere under any circumstances.
He may do worse than rape you.
2006-09-19 08:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off why is the kid saying these things if he apparently goes to church. Maybe he should pay attention when he's there. You should stay away from him, not just because you think it's you he's after, but because he is just a terrible person. And if you can, without igniting much riot, warn other girls too.
2006-09-19 08:14:32 · answer #11 · answered by joeyschiliro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋