He has someone right now they are in a serious realationship, I saw him recently and I got the feeling that it was mutal. I am not a homewrecker but this is my first real love. He taught me to look at life from another perspective and to take my thinking higher. He helped me to focus on the higher being that dwells whithin me. I am so torn! He is famous and I am not, It's been a year since we broke up and when I left I thought it would be over I prayed to God and everything but he's still in my dreams and when I see him the feeling is still there.
2006-09-19 08:05:14 · 15 answers · asked by Speakthe truth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im sorry that happened. All I can say is, try not to tie the higher thinking and life to being with him. When you were with him, you learned alot and you are better for that. Some people grow apart while others grow together....but with all that growing, we have to remember that it is on us to be able to grow independently for our own good.
I hope it workes out for you
Prayers and God Bless
2006-09-19 08:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he taught you to look at life from another perspective then look at life from another perspective other than your own. He is in a serious relationship and you are not a home wrecker.
I know this may sound harsh, but you need to develop some self esteem. Who is to say that you can't get out there and find someone else, but you actually have to leave the past where it belongs and get over your obvious worshipping of this guy. He was your first love and does not have to be your only. Now take all the good things that you said he taught you and go and see if it actually works.
2006-09-19 15:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has moved on then you need to find a way to do the same. Think of it this way. He probably likes this other girl as much as you like him. I know its hard to lose someone you love but guess what? There's someone out there made just for you. God created someone that will love you the way that you want to be loved. That person will stand by you no matter what. I went threw a divorce because she didn't want to be with me any more. It was the worst thing I had ever been through. I prayed and did everything I knew to do. But God had different plans for me. He knew there was someone else that was better for me. Now I'm not saying he tore my marriage apart. But through what happen I found Christ and after my divorce He put someone else in front of me. I met someone else and we are now happily married and I would go through it all over again if I had to to be with the women I am with now. Just take it one day at a time and continue to ask God for His guidance and He will lead you. Peace be with you and God Bless!!
2006-09-19 15:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by jesus_freak_sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First love huh?...well there'll be plenty more...I understand how you feel because he taught you a lot about life but something you have to understand is that its not going to work out...for whatever reason it didn't work out in the beginning, it's probably not going to work out in the end...I really don't know how old you are so I can't say that you'll find someone in the future because when you get old enough your options become limited...honestly I wish that things would go the way you want them to but I really think that you should not try and be with him again...if things come around your way because he wants to then go for it...other than that...leave things be...but if you try and go for him best of luck
2006-09-19 15:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by narfanator 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he taught you about life and higher thinking - PUT IT INTO PRACTICE!!! He is not the only man in the world! If he has found happiness with someone else, your "higher thinking" should kick in and be truly happy for him. MOVE ON! Don't waste your life and churning up your emotions over something that is not meant to be!
You will do him honor, you will show respect for his teachings, by moving on!
2006-09-19 15:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by jb_cpq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but he's with another woman now. Since the relationship is serious, don't interfere with it. Just be his friend, and let him know that you care about him very much.
Unless he breaks up with his current lover, there's nothing you can do. Good luck.
2006-09-19 15:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by NecropolisXR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would chose the direct approach. Do you think that you are ready to hear it if he doesn't want to be with you.
Also if you want to be with him you could choose to ride it out. Meaning just wait until he is free but don't do that without letting him know what your true feelings are. And remember to be respectful.
True love isn't selfish. If his new partner makes him happy allow him to stay with her without interference.
2006-09-19 15:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by goldenlifev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance...tell him how you feel. Just remember why you parted in the first place and that this might not come to fruition. Are you ready to accept that possibility?
2006-09-19 15:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is married or living with the lady I say hands off! Otherwise fair game!! Go for it!!! make your feelings clear, nothing to lose!!
2006-09-19 15:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone, you may have learned what you needed to learn and that seem to be able to see beyond yourself, now carry it forward and apply what you have learned.
if he wants to be with you then he may come back but if he is in this relationshop then he will do what is right which is what you should do also.
2006-09-19 15:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋